xtaraleksbfx Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 hey guys i know ive talked about this before but that guy still hasnt talked to me i havent even seen him in over 2 months and to make it worse i have no one to talk to about my feelings because my parents dont listen and all my friends tell me is that he wants nothing to do with me which makes me feel even worse about myself. saturday night i tried to call him but he didnt answer so my friend called me him from her phone and he answered! i about broke down right there. im trying to accept the fact that he doesnt want to even be friends but its REALLY hard and know what to do. People keep telling me that i just need to move on but i cant because there is something about him thats different than other guys...ive never met a guy like him and now im afraid there is no other guy out there like him so thats why its so hard to get over it. im sick of crying myself to sleep every single night for the past two months.
Groovy Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 Sometimes we wear our friends out with complaints and reiterations of the same thing over and over. And sometimes our friends just don't understand. My only advice is to get counseling, someone who is meant to hear your story as many times as needed and looks forward to helping you with your struggles. If you are thinking about him 24-7 that is not good. A great book to read if you cannot afford counseling is "Obsessive Love" by Susan Forward. Best of luck and it will get better
EIN Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 Listen, you are loved. People like me and fellow forum users are here for you. If you need to vent your sadness, frustrations; you have come to the right place. This is your sanctuary. Tara, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. I can figure you feel yourself locked up in a dark room right now. Well, TURN ON THE LIGHTS. You'll see there are so many people standing right next to you. Coming here is your FIRST STEP TO REGAIN YOURSELF as a whole again after this GUY DID YOU WRONG. My WORDS OF WISDOM. First, write down all the QUALITIES you find that you say is so different from all other guys. Compare the things you say he is to the things he does. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. What type of guy who you consider is special and sweet to you DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS TO HURT YOU? Take your time to think about this. You probably see it for yourself that he is not that special. You are currently in denial that you put your hope and love solely on one person and when this person does not reciprocate, let alone completely cuts you off the picture, you are hurt. Understandable. Get off your feet and show him your willpower. Dont let anyone walk over you. Post more so we can all help you. These are hard learned lessons from my personal battles but I always win the WAR. He might have won a battle but DONT YOU ARE LET HIM WIN THE WAR. Evil people come in all shapes, sizes, and names.
Author xtaraleksbfx Posted March 16, 2005 Author Posted March 16, 2005 thanks guyz that helps a lot, i have been thinking about couseling so hopefully thatll help too. where do you get that book obsessive love?
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