ronald89 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 I met my ex over an internship last summer. I was 24 she was 20. We were both students. We only work tgt for two weeks but we clicked almost immediately. we had our first date after the two weeks. we kissed even before the date began. it is that much of a match, none of the usual game ppl play. for the year that follow it was honeymoon period all the way. then it all changed. We planned for eurotrip in summer this year. we spent ages looking at hotels and flights. everything was booked. the plan was that she was gonna go to london for summer school and i will join her after she finished. just before she leaves we had our 1 year anniversary, it was a perfect night, we went back to the same restaurant we had our first date in. then i sent her off at airport, kissed her goodbye, said i'll see her in a month. the first week she arrived we were still skyping and whatsapping. then 11 days after she left for london, one day she stopped replying my text. I found that odd cos it never happened, i tried to call but no answer. then when she finally did reply after 9 hours she gave me a long text saying how she felt we have different aims in life. i tried to call but she just refuse to pick up. needless to say the trip was cancelled. without even discussing with me she told me she already had another plan and will return to hong kong earlier instead of staying for the trip. she doesn't care abt how much we already paid or how much i looked forward to it. When she text me she doesn't even sound apologetic. it's like all of a sudden she became a completely different person, totally cold, heartless towards me. all she wants is to get rid of me and me never 'bothering' her. i feel like a used toy she throws under the bed and wish it will stay there. I never managed to talk to her, hear her voice let alone see her ever since i left her at the airport. I don't understand how can this person i spent a wonderful year with (it was the best year of my life) can turn so quickly. it's been 4 months and i still feel as lonely as ever. christmas is approaching and it just saddens me so much to think how happy i was this time last year.
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