kaka85 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 We kept chatting for more than a month and then I asked her out to which she agreed. I couldn't make it on the day she wanted me to and I apologized. THen again I did ask her out and she said she was "occupied" for a few days. Since then I didn't send a message neither did she. THere's a silence between us now. Should I break the silence? I now realize I've always been the one to break the silence or start the conversation. Is/Was she ever interested in me? If not, why did she responded in a good way and shared many things and finally agreed to go on a date?
d0nnivain Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 You have scheduling issues not lack of interest. Of course you should reach out & try again.
Emilia Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 Maybe she is one of those insecure types that likes playing games. Maybe she thought you were playing hard to get and she is doing the same. I honestly don't know when someone says a date doesn't suit them why they don't offer an alternative.
acrosstheuniverse Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 You already asked her out and she said she was too busy on the date you chose. It's now down to her to reschedule. If she doesn't, she just isn't into you. Don't be the person constantly bugging her and starting the conversation first, that's a clear sign she's not into you.
Author kaka85 Posted November 26, 2014 Author Posted November 26, 2014 I did try and initiated the chat again and we talked for some days. I asked her out again and she didn't respond at all. I think she might be interested in me because when I told her that I'd delete her from my list if she was too arrogant, she told me to calm down and that neither of us had wanted that. Of course, I'm not going to start again. But if she isn't interested at all and hates me that much, why won't she block me or something? She gave me her number first and I'm usually too busy with work and mostly chat late night. Is this the think that might have irritated her? Was I supposed to call her? Because I kept chatting on a chatting app. You already asked her out and she said she was too busy on the date you chose. It's now down to her to reschedule. If she doesn't, she just isn't into you. Don't be the person constantly bugging her and starting the conversation first, that's a clear sign she's not into you.
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