fundamental Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 For all the posters: Isn't it a strange feeling when you have a BF/GF and you post advice for people dealing with a break up.... them BOOM...it happens to you? Well, it finally happened to me. Although, I understand nothing lasts for ever, it is still so difficult. We'd been together for a year and were best friends prior to the relationship. I think I am still in shock...I don't know what happens next. For a long time I avoided a relationship so I would not have to deal with this feeling. She jumped the gun and ended things because she felt I was going to end things which I wasn't. I had just been dealing with some problems but not enough to end the relationship. Unfortunately, things did not end pretty and I wonder if we will ever be friends again. Wondering not so I can hope for another chance but to figure out if it was a mistake to get together in the first place. Maybe if we didn't get together, we'd still be friends. The relationship was pretty good so I guess it was worth it. I am just pretty shocked right now and I understand everyone on here goes through this. I guess I am just releasing some stress...but wow does it hurt. My mind forgets about her then I start thinking again. People have been telling me that she is thinking she made a big mistake. But right now I can't even think about her feelings, I don't want to get my hopes up. Although I have friends and family, I feel better to post it on here because I read the posts, topics, and everyone's problems and I know it goes on every single day in this forum. Everything just sucks!!!!
moimeme Posted March 17, 2005 Posted March 17, 2005 I know others this happened to. Sorry you're the latest in the long line.
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