bluefairy812 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 i think of him everyday. me and him never made it to bf/gf. we were getting to know each other and i made a big mistake. over a year has passed and he has never forgiven me. he confessed he loved me in june and right when we were going to get together i upset him by being too needy. he left me hanging. we talked and he told me he couldnt be friends or be with me. we hung out a month ago and everything was fine. then no contact. it makes me sad that one minute everything was fine and great and the next he stopped talking to me. i see his social media and it's flooded with girls. it's poison. i overthink every situation like the 28 year old woman that i am and the should've/could've/would've's. even now, as much as i would like to text him and say hello, he has gone a month without speaking to me. i can't continue to put myself out there without getting anything in return. i know i made a mistake but it's either you stop talking to me forever or you move on and let it go. i'm very sad right now.
d0nnivain Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 I'm sorry you are sad but you are right you have to stop reaching out to get nothing in return. I am also concerned that you were never BF/GF but you are still hung up on him a year later. That's a long time; perhaps you should think about getting help. For now, you have to keep yourself busy. When you find yourself thinking about him, stop remind yourself that it's not healthy & redirect your own energy.
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