sxylilcowgrl Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 [font=courier new][/font][color=blue][/color] Hey guys OK here is the story. Me and my boyfriend( if i can still call him that) broke up about two months ago. He said for me to go out with this kid Shane. I know i had been talking bout him alot so i figured he was mad and would cool off. Well him and i (ricky) went to the chili cook off ( its a country concert) together and after wards we had sex n he told me i love you. i though woo hoo we are getting back together. well things then went down hill he started lying to me and being mean. I began to cry. I dated the kid shane and all i would do was talk bout ricky and how much i love him and how i would do anything for him n all that good stuff..well now it has been two months and i am still fighting to be with him.. i am starting to lose him and he is starting to see other people. i lay in bed every night and cry... i constantly scold myself that i need to change to make him happy.. well when i found out that he was seeing this one girl he asked me to be with him again( of course i said no ) don't ever go out with someone when you guys are in the process of arguing.. u know?? but then now he wont talk to me.. i walked home alone crying.. i cant eat.. i don't sleep i lay awake and think of him.. how do i get him back i have tried everything i could think of... plz plz plz help me.. I NEED HIM!!!
Angeleyez2583 Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 You say you need him, but my question to you is : are you happy with yourself? I know how hard this sounds but don't call him. Get involved with some new activities or hobbies you like to take your mind off of him. workout, paint, sing, i don't care. Listen to music that does not remind you of him. You need to discover who you are as a person without this guy. The one rule I've learned about getting a guy back is to act like you're happy without them. It ticks them off and makes them think about you in all the good ways when you were together. Also Don't call, email, etc. Forget about him for now. I know this is hard but you need to do it for yourself! I just recently got broken up with, so if you need to, feel free to contact me at angeleyez2583 (my IM name)
fundamental Posted March 16, 2005 Posted March 16, 2005 If you need to think of him, do it. Hopefully, by not bottling up your feelings you will be able to flush him out of your mind. In the back of your mind, you want/hope he contacts you. Maybe he will, maybe he won't. You have no control over what he will do. It's hard but the best thing for you to do is not call at all. It's a good starting point to help you get out of the routine of calling him/staying in contact with him. Who knows? In the future, maybe he will contact you but let him be the one to do it. If you try to bug him, he will push you away. By that time, you may be happy with someone else...and he'll be the one regretting it.
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