sportygirl89 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 I have tried online and in person no one seems to interest me or give me that wow factor. I met one guy but he was being a but after his divorce. Its depressing seeing my ex in a relationship. Some girl from his hometown. He was so vindictive to me yet he gets a girl. He met her through family. I had to deal with the aftermath of his divorce she didn't have to. I lost 24 lbs and now am "skinny".
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 It all comes down to looks and a flirty personality. People look at the photos first, and may skim through the profile.
KatZee Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 It all comes down to looks and a flirty personality. People look at the photos first, and may skim through the profile. What does this have to do with the OP's question? SG89 I think you're just trying too hard at this time. You're also clearly not over your ex, and you're being hurt all over again every time you hear/see of your ex and his new girl who is nasty to you. Of course no one is going to give you that "wow" factor when you're caught up in the drama of a breakup and all this fallout. Perhaps you SHOULDN'T be dating at this point. You have to be happy, and fulfilled in your life first, and the rest just falls into place naturally. Maybe get out there and meet new people, try doing new things, get involved in some volunteer work, try Meetup.com, travel, etc. Don't force yourself to try and get a new boyfriend just because your ex is happy and with someone else. It's not a race. Also, why is his new gf so vindictive to you? If it's for no reason, don't envy him, she's no prize. Any person who's going to be vindictive for no reason is not a good person and eventually he's going to have to deal with this psycho when the real her comes out. If it's because you two have ongoing drama, cut it out.
d0nnivain Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 It's a numbers game. You have to put yourself out there in multiple ways. Try a variety of ways to meet new people but keep plugging away. Make a commitment to yourself that you will get out at least once time per week to make an effort. Be your best self when you go out & smile.
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