plguzmann Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 Well this chick just got out of a relationship we hung out 4 times painting shes getting into painting and im teaching her.I told her i like her and she told me she likes me I do think she likes me she let me grab her ass haha but shes also pretty cold and then sometimes she will say i miss you out of no where.So i asked her should i persue you she said im flippity flop im not sure its a good idea ive backed off relationships since ****boi "her ex" but i do like you and im just trying to figure myself out then i said enough of this i don't know responses give me a yes or a no?she said yes I just don't know and i'm confused if i should back off or not?I feel stupid
Tik Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 You're down the one way road to rebound and her breaking up with you once she sorts her feelings out and finds someone of real interest. By all means something good can grow from this but from my experience, it rarely happens. Your best bet? Give her space, take it slow, let her do the chasing. If she is the relationship type, she has to be the one calling the shots and wanting you; not the other way round.
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 When people are still raw out of a relationship, feeling dejected, they are drawn to attention and work at trying to get it to feel better about themselves. Those feelings she has for you are more superficial that anything else, that's why she blows hot and cold. Don't waste anymore of your time, and cut her off because she is just being an attention whore.
Author plguzmann Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 Thanks guys last night she texted me back at 130am i didnt reply today in the day she texted me at about 2pm i didn't reply until 930 tonight with a short text all she texted was her stomach was hurting and i said it will pass i dont know how to ignore her even more?
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 Either you tell her to her face, you are not interested in being friends or keep ignoring her.
Author plguzmann Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 i did smackie i said i need a yes or no if i should keep persueing you and she said yes but it makes alot of sense to just do my own thing look for other girls i know she talks to other guys
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 Look at this time you both want different things. Yes please do look for other girls, and make sure she understands this.
Recommended Posts