Lostinmusic Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 ...to get over a break up? My ex boyfriend ended our relationship just over 2 months ago and unfortunately I've not been able to stick to the no contact rule He met someone else within 3-4 weeks of us splitting but he said it's not rebound because he fell out of love with me before we split. We were together 14 months and although it had a few ups and downs, mainly his ex issue, we connected so well, both in and out of bed. He's moved on and is clearly happy but he wants to keep in contact. Wants to email once a week to 'catch up'. I have been doing this and pretending I am ok. I've certainly not been letting on at times I am still struggling. Firstly, why do you think he wants to keep in touch? Is it because he believes we have both moved on and he wants to stay friends like we always said? And what would his girlfriend think as I assume he doesn't tell her. Secondly, I guess I know the answer to is...how long did it take for you to heal and was that after NC? Is that really what I must do and how do I stop myself from responding?
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