Jet Lag Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Well, they have somewhat changed. They are no longer about him and a new partner. The last two nights I have recalled dreams... The first one, I was walking along the street towards him and he was looking passed me (obviously looking for someone else). It was kind of like he gave up waiting and when I got close to him he asked me to hang out with him. Then last night, I was dreaming that I was making moves on me an he rejected me physically. So not fun.
StrangerThanFiction Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Eesh, I hate dreams like those but I suppose they're better than the ones that wake you up in tears? Sorry to hear you're dreaming about him again, though. I think the dreams are just part of the healing process. 1
Arient Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 I really hate dreams like that It's no good at all for my healing. If I dreamt that we broke up, then I would feel down when I woke up or even cried in my dreams, but if I dreamt that we reconciled, then doom, even worse when I hit the reality. Not sure if it can help you, but I "trained" myself to deal with the dreams, I made myself feel very negative towards the dreams, and it sort of created a defending 'system' against those. I still dreamt about him, but I felt like my body and my mind automatically erased everything when I woke up the next morning, so I can felt that I dreamt about him but not remember anything, and it did not hurt with nothing memorized
Author Jet Lag Posted November 16, 2014 Author Posted November 16, 2014 Another dream... This time we were physical...it was pretty frantic. Strangely it comforted my soul even though it wasn't the best sex ever... And I woke up feeling a bit better.
Author Jet Lag Posted November 16, 2014 Author Posted November 16, 2014 I really hate dreams like that It's no good at all for my healing. If I dreamt that we broke up, then I would feel down when I woke up or even cried in my dreams, but if I dreamt that we reconciled, then doom, even worse when I hit the reality. Not sure if it can help you, but I "trained" myself to deal with the dreams, I made myself feel very negative towards the dreams, and it sort of created a defending 'system' against those. I still dreamt about him, but I felt like my body and my mind automatically erased everything when I woke up the next morning, so I can felt that I dreamt about him but not remember anything, and it did not hurt with nothing memorized Do you want to explain this a bit more?
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