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Well, they have somewhat changed.

 

They are no longer about him and a new partner.

 

The last two nights I have recalled dreams...

 

The first one, I was walking along the street towards him and he was looking passed me (obviously looking for someone else).

 

It was kind of like he gave up waiting and when I got close to him he asked me to hang out with him.

 

Then last night, I was dreaming that I was making moves on me an he rejected me physically.

 

So not fun.

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Eesh, I hate dreams like those :( but I suppose they're better than the ones that wake you up in tears? Sorry to hear you're dreaming about him again, though. I think the dreams are just part of the healing process.

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I really hate dreams like that :( It's no good at all for my healing. If I dreamt that we broke up, then I would feel down when I woke up or even cried in my dreams, but if I dreamt that we reconciled, then doom, even worse when I hit the reality. Not sure if it can help you, but I "trained" myself to deal with the dreams, I made myself feel very negative towards the dreams, and it sort of created a defending 'system' against those. I still dreamt about him, but I felt like my body and my mind automatically erased everything when I woke up the next morning, so I can felt that I dreamt about him but not remember anything, and it did not hurt with nothing memorized :)

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Another dream...

 

This time we were physical...it was pretty frantic.

 

Strangely it comforted my soul even though it wasn't the best sex ever...

 

And I woke up feeling a bit better.

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I really hate dreams like that :( It's no good at all for my healing. If I dreamt that we broke up, then I would feel down when I woke up or even cried in my dreams, but if I dreamt that we reconciled, then doom, even worse when I hit the reality. Not sure if it can help you, but I "trained" myself to deal with the dreams, I made myself feel very negative towards the dreams, and it sort of created a defending 'system' against those. I still dreamt about him, but I felt like my body and my mind automatically erased everything when I woke up the next morning, so I can felt that I dreamt about him but not remember anything, and it did not hurt with nothing memorized :)

 

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