JackJackxD Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 My Ex-GF dumped me 2 months ago, and we were in a relationship for 2 years. She said that she wanted to be friends and I agreed. We go to the same University and see each other almost on a daily basis since we have the same friendship group too. She feels awkward around me and she acts cold/emotionless. There was a misunderstanding a few days ago where she read a blog of mine (about jealousy) and somehow thought that I'm acting close to "her" friends (even though they are my friends too) to be in her face and to get her attention. I wanted to talk to her to clear things up but she said she didn't want to talk. Today, a mutual friend of ours talked to her about the whole thing. Our mutual friend told me about their conversation and here is how it goes. She started off by asking whether things are awkward with me, and my Ex said "Yes, things are awkward again after reading his blog". When my mutual friend told her my explanation, however my Ex-GF said she doesn't care anymore. She also said that I'm not her boyfriend anymore so my things don't have anything to do with her. Then my friend ask her what else she wants me to know, and surprisingly my Ex did say something. She told her friend that she wants me to know that there are other people chasing her now. Then they talked about how this "god brother" of her asked her to go out on a date with him, but she turned him down since she wasn't interested (not sure if this part was included in the thing she wanted to tell me). She also said that she doesn't want to date anyone anymore after what she has been through, and would turn anyone down. I'm so confused right now. Why does she say that she doesn't care anymore, but wants me to know that there are other guys chasing her? Is that a sign telling me to give up on chasing her? Or is she trying to tell me to step my game up and start changing? Please give me your view on this. NOTE: We broke up because I kept repeating the same mistakes (i.e acting too close to my female friends), and she broke up with me because she was too disappointed. I feel like she is hurt badly emotionally since she did cry a few times when she broke up with me, but I'm unsure because she seems emotionless/fine when she is around me.
Col1 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 Time to move on. You go after others too after taking time to get over her.
whatcanitellyou Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 Either because she's petty or she feels you've wronged her somehow and she's trying to stick it in your face. There's also the possibility that she's hoping it'll bother you because women that crave lots of male attention get off on the idea that they're wanted by several men, so even though she doesn't necessarily want you she likes the idea that you're pining away for her. It's an ego boost.
Author JackJackxD Posted November 16, 2014 Author Posted November 16, 2014 Either because she's petty or she feels you've wronged her somehow and she's trying to stick it in your face. There's also the possibility that she's hoping it'll bother you because women that crave lots of male attention get off on the idea that they're wanted by several men, so even though she doesn't necessarily want you she likes the idea that you're pining away for her. It's an ego boost. Well I feel like she felt wronged because of how she said "I'm not going into a relationship after what I've been through". I don't know if she is directing her anger at me, or she wants me to know that I need to change or else some one else would take her. I mean if she truely has moved on then there should be no reason why she would bother doing something so petty like this. If it was me I wouldn't even bother doing these things towards someone I don't care about.
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