Was it wrong of me to turn a guy down after he asked me to be his girlfriend?

[beauty_lover98]

There is this guy that really likes me in my school. He asked me to be his girlfriend. I said, "I just want to be friends because I am going on dates with other guys and I hope you understand". The he responded, "I think that's messed up that you can go talk to every guy out there". I was just being honest with him and I have no feelings for him at all. He made me look bad. Do you think this is messed up of me?

[Mrin]

No. Not at all.

[Tik]

Each to their own. No wrong here. Some guys need to get over themselves.

[TigerLilly78]

Long as you didn't lead him on in anyway then no sounds like you were honest and upfront if he cant accept that its on him not you..

[leavesonautumn]

No, you've done nothing wrong. In fact, you were honest and upfront which most people appreciate.

 

He's trying to make you feel guilty because he was rejected. Don't feel guilty for being interested in other people.

[losangelena]

He sounds butt hurt and like he's trying to make you feel bad for rejecting him.

 

Stay strong.

[Omei]

He sounds butt hurt and like he's trying to make you feel bad for rejecting him.

 

Stay strong.

 

This, total ass hurt.

 

You are totally free to multi date and pick or choose who might interest you, and your being really honest about it your doing it the right way! Good for you.

[preraph]

No, you were totally in the right and upfront and honest with him. He's a little jerk for reacting like he did -- so I say it's a good thing you rejected him. He's not a very nice guy and you'd have been stuck with that. Don't let him contact you anymore since he acted that way.

[d0nnivain]

I agree. You did the right thing.

 

In hindsight, what do you think you would feel like if knowing you had no feelings for him, you agreed to be his exclusive GF? Would you be happy right now? Of course not.

 

You did hurt his feelings (but in the nicest way possible) so he lashed out. That's all.