Chatmonkey Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 My situation was we were never officially together but we were exclusive. She is saying now she wants to be open and be able to hook up with others, we can be friends and hang/still hookup. I had feelings for her so went NC and we haven't spoken in 14 days today. So tempted to break it... but I feel as if im in a battle with just myself here as its not like we were actually officially a couple or anything!!
swimmergal Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 If she is saying you weren't even exclusive in the first place DO NOT CALL HER. I know it is horrible, but the minute she thinks you are no longer interested, she will call...or she won't and you will be open to find a better partner. 2
LisaSmith_1970 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 My situation was we were never officially together but we were exclusive. She is saying now she wants to be open and be able to hook up with others, we can be friends and hang/still hookup. I had feelings for her so went NC and we haven't spoken in 14 days today. So tempted to break it... but I feel as if im in a battle with just myself here as its not like we were actually officially a couple or anything!! Was this some sort of FWB situation? Did you tell her you had feelings and what was her reaction? Yeah, I have to agree go no contact.
BC1980 Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 A situation requires NC is you are unable to be just friends. If you have feelings for her, you are going to put yourself in a lot of pain, especially if you end up in a FWB scenario. Those almost always leave one party extremely hurt.
d0nnivain Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 NC is to help you heel so you are not constantly bombarded by what you can't have. Here you can have a piece of what you want but not all of it, no exclusivity. If half a loaf will make you feel better, go for it but bring condoms. If you know that the idea she is with you tonight but will be in another guy's bed tomorrow is upsetting, stay away.
Author Chatmonkey Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 Ok guys. Thanks for the responses I guess I will keep with the NC. Appreciate it greatly. 1
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