jl1992 Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 I'm going on a first 'date' next weekend, but I'm not sure it is a date? This woman works with me but in a different office, where I met her for the first time 2 weeks ago, although we occasionally emailed at work before (regarding work things). I broke up with my then gf, to give dating this girl a go, and asked her out on a date about 10 days ago. She told me that I am a bit young (she is 27, I am 21) and I live too far away and with my parents still, so she is not interested. Yet she agreed to go out for a drink as I may have the potential to change her mind. She is also connected to our mutual friend at work, and asked me to give her some space from texting, as we text everyday, and he was being strange with her. However she has not cancelled the meeting. I am just being hopeful, or am I actually in with a chance? I can't read the situation.
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 You may have a chance but not if you smother her. Have the drink. Flirt. See where that goes but do not make any big declarations & don't look for any commitment beyond a possible 2nd date. Your best bet would be to have the drink & try to stretch that into dinner. Then wait a few days & call her to ask for a 2nd date. Do not text or e-mail. You must also show that you are more mature then your 21 years while you are out with her so step up your game.
smackie9 Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Women her age are looking for someone that has progessed more in their life finaincially.....she doesn't want a man child. She might sleep with you a few times until she meets a more substancial man. 1
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