Maxie Max Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 I'm debating this and am gathering more information. You have a couple that has that over the top love. They talk all day, spend every minute together and just can't get enough of each other. It gradually starts to slow down to the point where the women is . She begins to accept that things may be over and she builds the courage to ask him if he has lost interest in her. She is ready to face breaking up if that is what is best. Her man denies losing interest. He lists out all of his problems. Money is a huge issue. He admits that he spends most of his time with his mom because they recently reconciled. He says he doesn't go out much anymore, not because he doesn't want to go out with her but because he has been focusing his time on his mom and sorting out his problems with money. He ends it that he is trying his absolute best to keep her and everyone satisfied. I think he is blowing her off, but very nicely.
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 I think it's just burn out. Nobody can keep up that initial hot & heavy 24/7 contact. Life gets in the way but that happening is not always indicative of diminished interest just a realization that you have to earn money (or study); do laundry; grocery shop; address family obligations etc.
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