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She asked me, 'how about two girls?"


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The relationship is over, bit last year, when we were first hot and heavy, my ex (who was blown away by my admittedly novice peromance) asked me, 'have you ever wanted to do it with two girls?'. I meekly responded 'well, its every man's fantasy... BUT I LIKE BEING WITH JUST YOU'.

 

A few months later we were in a hotel room and we were fooling around and I asked her, 'if we ever did it with another girl, how would we do it?' She was entirely game for the discussion, I asked her why she had been so open, she told me, 'ive never felt this comfortable around someone before.' It seemed like a sweet and innocent response, so I felt it would be wrong to press it.

 

Anyway, a few months after that, she was talking to me about breast envy and habing lesbian dreams. A few times while drunk she admitted being attracted to the female physique.

 

Anyway, my question... if I pushed it? Could I have gotten a three-way?

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Depends on how long you were together but from the sounds of it she could of been persuaded, but thats in the past now.

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Anyway, my question... if I pushed it? Could I have gotten a three-way?

 

That is a question you will never know the answer to.

 

Enjoy trying to puzzle it out.

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The only way a three some doesn't blow up in your face is if you have no connection whatsoever to both girls.

 

 

They get jealous. Either during or afterwards. Its a really stupid idea to have one while in a relationship.

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The only way a three some doesn't blow up in your face is if you have no connection whatsoever to both girls.

 

 

They get jealous. Either during or afterwards. Its a really stupid idea to have one while in a relationship.

 

and thats why i never pursued it further than playful fantasy. i look back on it and those first few months she might have done anything, but i saw some sweetness in her that i didnt want to jeopardize.

 

thanks for reaffirming.

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Yes. You could have. But I would probably have turned out ugly unless you were totally rock solid with her.

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jealousy raises it's ugly head, and it's game over.

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Two on one is lots of fun!

 

With the right people, there isn't jealousy or drama - at least I've never experienced any, nor have the other involved. Good communication and setting expectations prior is key to a good outcome.

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