LoverOfDance Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 So I am talking with a circle of friends and although I am contributing to the conversation, I am not the main person leading the conversation. In other words the conversation is not about me. A guy who is also a part of the conversation turns to face me. As previously said, the conversation was not about me. About 3 minutes later, I get up and move to somewhere else and he turns to face me again (with his feet pointing towards me). I found that a little odd. Could this body language mean anything at all? Or does it mean nothing?
GemmaUK Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 It would mean his focus is on you. This might be that he agrees with you. Or it might be that he disagrees with you and wants to challenge you. You could tell more by what was being said and what his facial expressions and other movements were aside from where he was facing.
Author LoverOfDance Posted November 14, 2014 Author Posted November 14, 2014 Hi, thanks for the reply. Well, he was part of the conversation but he wasn't really saying much. It was a light conversation and we weren't arguing about anything so I doubt he disagreed with anything I was saying.
GemmaUK Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Then perhaps he likes you. Do you like him? Did you stay in place comfortably (ish) the second time he did this? If you then turned away again or moved he may have the impression that it's not reciprocated.
Author LoverOfDance Posted November 14, 2014 Author Posted November 14, 2014 Wow, I actually do like him but I got a little uncomfortable when he turned to face me again so I moved again. Are u sure there isn't another explanation for him behaving like this?
evanescentworld Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 If a person crosses their arms, are they being defensive, or are they simply chilly? You cannot take one or two instances of motions and call them 'body language'. People pay attention in different ways. Body language is not only a matter of how a person moves. It also takes into account what the context, content, verbal inflection, circumstance, general mood and words used, are. put it all together. All of it. What do YOU now think the situation reveals? 1
Chemist Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 I think someone here's read a little about body language signs that he's into you. I wouldn't read too much into it, but keep an eye on him. Usually when I get these feelings that a girl is into me, I am right, even though I can't pinpoint exactly what tipped me off. Maybe for you, there are other things going on as well and you just don't consciously recognize it. With that being said, if you're interested, make yourself available for conversations with him. If you're in a group, try to stand near him/isolate him so he can strike up a convo with you. Just start talking to him yourself. Ask him a direct question or something. Then if he likes you, I am certain he would want to make it more obvious than just facing you in a group.
Author LoverOfDance Posted November 14, 2014 Author Posted November 14, 2014 Hi evanescentworld, thanks for the reply. Honestly, I really don't know why he behaved the way he did. I can only make guesses but I can't say for sure and that's why I wrote this thread. If you have any ideas as to why he behaved the way he did, please let me know.
Arieswoman Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Loverofdance, IMO it means he was interested in what you or what you were saying. However, it all depends on what other non-verbal clues he gave, such as folding arms = negative, smiling = positive. He could have wished to challenge your opinion or just hear more of it, it's very difficult to say. This is interesting ;- https://gobodylanguage.com/learn-body-language/pointed-feet 1
evanescentworld Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 (edited) Hi evanescentworld, thanks for the reply. Honestly, I really don't know why he behaved the way he did. I can only make guesses but I can't say for sure and that's why I wrote this thread. If you have any ideas as to why he behaved the way he did, please let me know. No idea whatsoever. If you cannot make an educated guess about his intentions via his verbal and physical input, there's not a bat's chance in Hades we can offer anything definitively constructive, based on your 'black on white' words alone. We're discussing 'body language' here, and in spite of your description of events, we're none the wiser, particularly as we weren't even there to see it... It's all complete hypothesis. Your only course of action now - is to ask him what his intentions were, face to face, one-on-one. Edited November 14, 2014 by evanescentworld
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