Thegreatestthing Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Well he was wanting me the last two years,emailing me all the time etc but I never replied to any of his emails,he sent one last Monday asking how I was (even though I never reply to any of them) I got drunk ten days later and replied. In my email I said that I didn't want to be his amusement,I don't know why I said that ,I told him I was sick of men,I told him I have a good bf who fully supports me and could I want for more,that he adores me. i said I had no big passion for him(my bf) and that my bf had just lost his Job. It's been 4 days no reply- this guy always replies. I can't say I'm that upset really,I never liked the fact that this guy was my soulmate, it's just something I knew,but when he ignores me like this I want to forget it,it's got me questioning myself,why didn't he reply.
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 For two years this guy you admittedly don't like was bothering you & you ignored him for 2 years then when you were drunk 10 days after he sent you a message you sent a negative reply but now you're upset that he hasn't replied. OMG. Really? Think that through again & you will have your answer. 2
Mangina Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 I think because of what you told him when you finally replied to him. Why did you ignore him and then finally send him an email like that? 1
Author Thegreatestthing Posted November 14, 2014 Author Posted November 14, 2014 I was in love with him a long time ago,but the last two years I'd been involved with others and not thinking of him. I was never going to reply, but I was drunk,didn't realky know what I was doing,and couldn't stop thinking about him,it made me realise I don't have passion for my bf,and I told this guy that and he didn't care. Even though he'd been hassling me to date etc for months
clementyne Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 I wouldn't reply either if I had pursued someone for two years and then suddenly they send me a reply like yours. I hope for his sake that this is the end of the emails and he finally gets the message and moves on with his life. As for you, the real question is why are you wondering about his non-reply when you never bothered to reply to him yourself for two years? Could be that you enjoyed the attention and missing it a bit now that it's gone? Ask yourself honestly. 1
Author Thegreatestthing Posted November 14, 2014 Author Posted November 14, 2014 Yes I do feel a power loss and miss the adoration most,but he is also the only guy im attracted to atm,though I'm pretty sure I could fall for a number of guys. sucks that I risked it though and he didn't reply.
IfiKnewThen Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 ONLY if you really think u care about him again and wont hurt him..ONLY then send him another text or email and say please forgive me. its been quite awhile. i was a bit inebriated when i text you. i had been thinking about you lately and it made me realize i didnt have passion for my b/f. that got me a bit concerned. i dont know if i explained that right to you, that evening. my apologies. sorry its taken me this long to get back to you in life. but how r u ? will u pls write back : ) thanks
Mangina Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 ONLY if you really think u care about him again and wont hurt him..ONLY then send him another text or email and say please forgive me. its been quite awhile. i was a bit inebriated when i text you. i had been thinking about you lately and it made me realize i didnt have passion for my b/f. that got me a bit concerned. i dont know if i explained that right to you, that evening. my apologies. sorry its taken me this long to get back to you in life. but how r u ? will u pls write back : ) thanks I say call him this time instead of text and tell him the truth. An apology wouldn't hurt either.
Author Thegreatestthing Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 Apologise for what? Saying what I feel,that's silly. The only bad thing I said was that he would "ruin me".
Mangina Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 Apologise for what? Saying what I feel,that's silly. The only bad thing I said was that he would "ruin me". I can not believe with the 2 years of not replying and getting a power trip and the last message you sent that you feel you have nothing to apologize for. I take that back and say stay away from him because you are so selfish you will do whatever you want with out thinking about him. 1
Author Thegreatestthing Posted November 18, 2014 Author Posted November 18, 2014 He replied awhile ago and he's been writing for a few days now, so no need fir an apology,I don't know how I feel about him,when I don't talk to him I romanticise him,when I do talk to him I just feel eh.
Mangina Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 He replied awhile ago and he's been writing for a few days now, so no need fir an apology,I don't know how I feel about him,when I don't talk to him I romanticise him,when I do talk to him I just feel eh. Please leave him alone and stop leading him on. You will only confuse your self and hurt him. 2
Frank13 Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 I don't know how I feel about him,when I don't talk to him I romanticise him,when I do talk to him I just feel eh. I did the same thing. Split with my ex and missed her terribly. Saw her 9 months later and didn't feel anything when I did. We spoke for about 5 minutes. When I left I felt I had closure. Then over the next few months I started missing her again. It's been almost two years since then and I still think about her. Even though I am much better than at the breakup and even the first year, I sometimes wonder if I should try to get a friendship going and maybe have it fade away rather than to keep thinking about her.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 This can't be real, this must be a joke. I can't even fathom the logic behind your response to this bloke! You ignore him for years, then get mad when he doesn't reply, Seriously? Stop for a second and really think why! You must understand, you owe each other nothing I say! You ignored him for two years...wouldn't the reciprocal response be ok?? You're talking again you say, you've successfully sunk your hook, And now you don't even care, seriously, this entire thread is gobbledygook.
dclan Posted November 19, 2014 Posted November 19, 2014 I'll tell you why he ignores you...I've read some of your posts and your "history" with this guy. You usually describe him as your soulmate? Well...what would a soultmate do? He would do the thing that tickles you. You like the drama you have with this guy. He is giving you that. He is ignoring you.... And, you are loving it. You are going crazy about the guy not paying attention to you. Of couse when I say "loving it", what I mean is that he's got your attention now...your hooked up on his reply. That is what's going on. Its probably part of the chemistry both of you have.
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