MercuryMorrison1 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 (edited) If the guy is 5'3" and 300lbs, he'd literally be like the shape of a ball......as wide as he is tall. Funny you mention that. He's actually got VERY broad shoulders and is quiet round in appearance. The point im trying to get across is so many guys chicken out asking girls out because of this perceived ''league''. My buddie, as far as I am concerned is living proof that most of these guys just need to grow a pair or stop complaining. Edited November 16, 2014 by MercuryMorrison1
Mangina Posted November 17, 2014 Posted November 17, 2014 My assumption that you have a confidence problem seems to be on the mark. If you can't accept that someone wants to be with you because they like you rather than assuming they are settling for you because they can't do better, you have a self confidence / self esteem issue. Your statement that you are having trouble dating at 26 because you don't have a "strong jaw line" and are considering surgery & you have a receding hair line further supports the idea that you your self esteem could use a boost. Whatever the reason you can't get a date, I promise you it has NOTHING to do with the shape of your jaw or your hair. Although I have never seen you "in action" I suspect that when you talk to & flirt with these "big girls" you are more relaxed & more yourself. You see them to some extent as not worthy of you but women you can't get so it's easier. When you see another woman who you are more attracted to who you see as a catch, you freeze up or act more awkward. She picks up & that & you shoot yourself in the proverbial foot. Before you dismiss my theory out of hand, sit down & really examine your own behaviors / reactions to see if there is any truth to what I said. Then try to be more relaxed when you speak to the women you deem more desirable. This is not right. I meet girls online. There is no fereezing up and acting awkward. I have put myself out there enough in person to know where I stand. Random girls get uncomfortable and don't look at me when I pass them or if I happen to be in the elevator with them. I can look at the guys who do well with girls and I can see the difference in facial features. I like what you are trying to do with the advice you are giving me and I thank you but I have excepted the world we live in. I am fine dating larger girls my x girlfriend was very good to me and I liked her too. She had to relocate with her family and I am single I once agian but I working on some pictures to do online dating again.
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