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With my ex, with for 2 years etc one night in bed we were asleep i rolled over caught her with my elbow in the cheek. She had a bruise and took a photo, turned out she was a scheming bitch that used that when she got caught cheating showing people the picture of what i had apparently done.

 

The night we broke up i found out about her cheating we was in public and i went to walk off she hit me in the back of the head i turned round and she landed a punch right in my mouth, made me bleed and everything. Right in front of police, they jumped out and put us both in handcuffs because obviously as the male i was "clearly the aggressor". This was in public where people saw and she used that against me too, even though i did nothing wrong.

 

But now these people she told that i beat her them times, when i have never laid a finger on any girl in my life. I've spent the last six years with 3 different long term partners and then this one of a few months i aparently beat but none of the others, never.

 

 

This rumour though is spreading around my home town, i hooked up with a girl for a month but then she broke it off cause of these rumours, all i get is abuse online from people back home because this manipulating little b**** has played the victim when she got caught cheating and got embarrased over it. She is now begging for me back and telling me how in love she is with me and shes learned her mistake but i just dont know what to do with any situation, im losing everything i had and my sanity, i can't concentrate at work i can't do a thing right at the moment.

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Get a lawyer. You need to understand all of your rights & options as well as mount a defense.

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With my ex, with for 2 years etc one night in bed we were asleep i rolled over caught her with my elbow in the cheek. She had a bruise and took a photo,

 

 

Some other stuff happened before this and had gone on for a while I think.

 

 

What had happened over your 2 years together?

 

 

You sound very angry with calling her 'b' several times in your OP.

Do you have anger issues?

 

 

Part of any moving on is manning/womanning up and taking responsibility. :)

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Well there was a time when she strangled me because she was drunk and left hand marks round my neck, the times she would slap me in public because she was showing off, the amount of people she cheated on me with, and not one night things as in meeting up with them repeatedly while i was at work.

 

Manning up is one thing but being being abused and cheated on and being bitter is another.

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