MapleWish Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 And I do mean to an extent, not all day every day. Im starting to get upset because the guy I'm dating is spending more time with his best friend than me. They work in the same place so they see each other and talk to each other every day at work, they're in the same apartment complex not roommates but practically act like it, my bf is over at his best friend's place nearly every night because his game system is over there and they play games all night and he sleeps on his buddie's couch. So they see each other every morning, day, and night. And the times I get to see him are when he's off work at 530 but generally he's already tired by then so we just end up staying in and watching movies at my place, he doesn't spend the night though. His apartment is disarray right now and he doesn't want me over just yet. Yes I am you could say by all meaning a clingy girlfriend but the guy I'm dating told me he's ok with that. I'm not so clingy I text a guy every 5 seconds and call him every minute and need aaaalll his attention bla bla bla, no I'm clingy but in a good way. I like to give the guy a lot of my attention but not all of it, just enough to where he knows I like him and like showing it, I've always been this way. I told my guy I do get jealous if he spends more time with his best friend than me and I believe time spent with me should be like 60% and the other 40% should be with his best friend and other guy friends, once again my boyfriend says he's ok with that. He likes clingy and possessive and likes when the girl wants to spend time with him. But yet I won't argue if he ends up spending more time with his best friend than me cause the whole clingy double standard, where if a guy is clingy it's cute but if a girl is all "but I wanted to spend time with you" it's clingy and not attractive, it's unfair, I see my girlfriends too but during the day, so at night I have time for my bf. and my girls are the same way with their guys, girl time during the day and boyfriend time at night. My boyfriend is understanding and sees it from my point of view but more often than not I compromise and am like "ok have fun" even though I'm screaming inside that I wanted to spend time with him. Last night him and his bestie got home from church close to 9pm and he texted me they were gonna stay in and watch netflix. But in the past he's been outside my workplace by my car around 10pm waiting for me to get off work to spend time with me. He can hang out with me around 10 but close to 9 he chooses his bestie and netflix over me? It's still early in our relationship but he says he's ok with clingy so frankly idk what to do. Remind him he gets to see his best friend every day for hours on end and he should spend time with me?
Keenly Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 Did you just copy and paste your other thread into this thread verbatim?
Author MapleWish Posted November 13, 2014 Author Posted November 13, 2014 Titled it diff for diff opinions, I do it all the time
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