I am in love with a escort

[cypha]

ok i am writing as i am between a rock and a hard place and have no where left to turn.

I fully except that some people are going to slate me off, however it is the dose of reality i need right now!

 

So here's my issue, i have been married for 6 years in a basic loveless marriage, no sex, loads of arguing you get the picture.

I had to' work away from home one weekend and stayed in a hotel.

After a few drinks at the bar, my curiosity got the better of me and i called a escort agency.

No before i hear everyone screaming, i have NEVER cheated on my wife before that day.

 

Anyway's so this girl turned up and by this point i had drunk half the bar, anyways it was fun but i felt removed from the experience.

The next night i thought, right i will get the same girl again but this time lay off the booze first.

She arrived and she was amazing, i explained about the marriage and she gave me some positive advice.

 

Very happy i returned home....arguing started again. At which point i though, even though it was 2 hours of my life vs 6 years, she had shown me what feeling like being loved was all about.

Long story short i moved out the next weekend. It was a real eye opener to what my life could be and not the **** pile is.

Ps the wife made no attempt to stop me leaving.

 

I found a flat close to my office to save with the travelling to work and moved in.

I booked her again a nice moving in present to myself. At this point i was full of adventure of what my life might be like now.

 

When she arrived she did a double take as i explained that my experience with her had let me to see the error of my ways.

She was genuinely put out about being a home wrecker. I put her mind at rest and we had a really long talk.

 

She has always been chatty, but this time it was a lot more personal. Things i wouldnt tell a complete stranger, so i said some stuff too.

We held some very long passionate stares that night.

The next night i thought why not and booked her again.

At this point i would like to say that i am a people person and the more i know someone the more i let my guard down.

 

When she arrive, she tells me more and more VERY personal things and she tells me her real name, about her kids, ex cross dressing boyfriend...you name it it all came out.

We just talked and talked and talked. Be both remarked about how much we enjoyed talking to each other and which we had more time.

I dont know why but at this point i though i would pose the question about meeting up for lunch, but just as mates. Being on my own in a room for hours was messing with my head, so i just wanted to talk too.

She was sort of taken aback, she said she would think about it and i left it there. She did not message me.

 

A week past and i booked here again.

This is were i want to start the discussion, she revealed to me that because of a previous ex-boyfriend who offended her when she pleasured herself in front of him, she had a phobia (please note she told me this on the second time i met her!)

 

We talked and laughed, had fun and said i would help her get over her phobia. So this loving care she agreed and pleasured herself in front of me. Please note she took a lot of convincing that i wouldnt do what the ex did. As a regular passionate lover, i put her at ease and she finally managed it. It did take a while and she kept stopping as she was embarrassed.

It the end she looked me square in the eyes and said thank you so much for helping me. Anyways she suggested she owed me a favour. She said she was going to text me from her other mobile as the agency would not like us talking on her work mobile.

 

I have missed loads out, but (and i know she is a business) we really have a connection.

I asked her directly how she felt about me and she said she was very attracted to me.

 

I have missed loads out, but here i am the day after no text again and missing this girl. She has crawled in my head and nested.

I know what her job is and i except that, she know i do. christ i met her on the job so who am i to judge.

She told me she wants to stop escorting, only once someone asks her to marry. Which noone has ever done.....unbelievable. She is unbelieveable catch! I dont understand why no one has stepped up yet??

 

Firstly i dont want to change her, she is the girl i fell for, but there is a end in near for job...for the right man.

 

So here is the question, am i being taken for a ride or if my feeling about her are right there might be a chance of a magical relationship, borne out a very strange situation.

[cdt76]

Yes. She is soaking you for a lot of money.

[losangelena]

You're not in love with this woman. You're in love with the idea of her and the affection she shows. If she WERE to leave her job to be with you, she'd start to seem mundane too, having to deal with her and her past day in, day out.

 

Don't forget, she's PAID to make you feel a connection with her. How else does she get you to keep calling?

 

It takes two to tank a marriage and two to repair it. No wonder your wife didn't try to stop you when you left—you'd just cheated on her!

[Lernaean_Hydra]

You sir are being taken for quite a ride. It hasn't yet dawned on you that she never initiates contact outside of business and only gives you the time of day when you pay for it?

 

She can't stop being an escort unless someone marries her? Why??? It's 2014 in what I can only assume is somewhere in Europe. I'm struggling to see how marriage is her only option...

 

No, what she's really saying is, she won't stop until she finds a sucker to pay her bills. You mentioned she has kids...no surprise there. I assume she's looking for a new daddy for them as well - if she even has custody that is. You can't have made it this far in life without being able to recognize BS when you see it.

 

Why has no one "stepped up" yet? She's a hooker!

[OwMyEyeball]

Here's a simple test:

 

See what happens when you refuse to pay up after your next encounter.

[Tayken]

Yes. She is soaking you for a lot of money.

 

 

As well as being Cuckhold.

[Gloria25]

You sir are being taken for quite a ride. It hasn't yet dawned on you that she never initiates contact outside of business and only gives you the time of day when you pay for it?

 

She can't stop being an escort unless someone marries her? Why??? It's 2014 in what I can only assume is somewhere in Europe. I'm struggling to see how marriage is her only option...

 

No, what she's really saying is, she won't stop until she finds a sucker to pay her bills. You mentioned she has kids...no surprise there. I assume she's looking for a new daddy for them as well - if she even has custody that is. You can't have made it this far in life without being able to recognize BS when you see it.

 

Why has no one "stepped up" yet? She's a hooker!

 

Amen sister!!!

 

BTW, what you described is also used by chicks who aren't "officially" in the stripper/hooker profession....they walk among us!!!

 

I gotta love the whole sob story though. How her ex left her with the kids, and now she's trying to get her life on track, working hard, going to school...bla freakn' bla

 

But, how does that saying goes? "Every day a sucker is born?"

 

:rolleyes:

[Mangina]

I hope you make enough money to keep her.

[Gloria25]

I hope you make enough money to keep her.

 

Well, sure, but can he handle all the "pool boys" she's gonna be getting her real satisfaction from while he's working hard makin' all that money for her and her poor litt'l kids?

[Mangina]

Well, sure, but can he handle all the "pool boys" she's gonna be getting her real satisfaction from while he's working hard makin' all that money for her and her poor litt'l kids?

 

Once I paid $200 for a hooker. She told me she had a bad week, caught her boyfriend cheating on her yada yada.

 

I didn't know what to tell her, a prostitute who was upset that her boyfriend cheated on her.

[Lernaean_Hydra]

Amen sister!!!

 

BTW, what you described is also used by chicks who aren't "officially" in the stripper/hooker profession....they walk among us!!!

 

I've seen it happen more often than I care to remember. My father is currently "multi-dating" a few (much younger) women and he thinks himself as quite the ladies man. We actually got into a HUGE fight because I mentioned it was quite strange how these girls were constantly having some sort of difficulty. Sick kids, car trouble, foreclosure etc, etc. Always "money problems" .

 

I gotta love the whole sob story though. How her ex left her with the kids, and now she's trying to get her life on track, working hard, going to school...bla freakn' bla

 

It's so amazing to me that this game still works on some guys. Hookers and the like are notorious for these antics yet they keep getting guys to fall for it.

[Tayken]

Once I paid $200 for a hooker. She told me she had a bad week, caught her boyfriend cheating on her yada yada.

 

I didn't know what to tell her, a prostitute who was upset that her boyfriend cheated on her.

 

 

The Lord works in miraculous way....you never know when the divine spirit will touch down.

[Lernaean_Hydra]

Once I paid $200 for a hooker. She told me she had a bad week, caught her boyfriend cheating on her yada yada.

 

I didn't know what to tell her, a prostitute who was upset that her boyfriend cheated on her.

 

I knew a stripper who was upset her boyfriend was watching porn while she was at work. I just...I really couldn't wrap my head around that one. You are porn, lady!

[Robert]

Drive by poster, closed unless they log back in and and alert on my post to ask to open it back up, thanks