jacksonlou Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 supposed to meet up with this girl friday night was tetxing her me:hey her:hey me: how are you me: feeling better? me: what time should i come down tomorrow her: what would tou rather do night or day? me: doenst matter i guess night her: ok me: wish i could se you tonight her: tonight/ me: yea lol her: oh yea lol i have class tonight though me: its cool tomorrow is fine lol was i clingy?
Dallers Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 supposed to meet up with this girl friday night was tetxing her me:hey her:hey me: how are you me: feeling better? me: what time should i come down tomorrow her: what would tou rather do night or day? me: doenst matter i guess night her: ok me: wish i could se you tonight her: tonight/ me: yea lol her: oh yea lol i have class tonight though me: its cool tomorrow is fine lol was i clingy? Completely unnecessary pointless conversation. Whenever you message a girl who is to be in your bed at the end of the evening you be assertive and make her understand exactly what you want and what she is going to expect. me: I want to see you at ____ tomorrow night. her: I won't be ready by then how bout____ me: I suppose so as it is you but you better make it worth my while... her: I will don't worry :-) me: I do not doubt that for a second. See you tomorrow. x ^^^ That is how the conversation should have gone. 2
Redhead14 Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 It was borderline. If a guy asks to see you on a specific night, it usually means he's got something else going on around that night. You guys had a specific night arranged. You asking about that night could come off as either clingy or fishing to find out what he's doing when he's not with you. In this case, he did tell you what he was doing and it sounds legit (instead of ah, you know, just hangin or non-specific) so, hopefully, he just thinks you can't wait to see him
d0nnivain Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 No you didn't come off as clingy but for that much back & forth, why not just call & talk?
losangelena Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 Not clingy, just ... a bit mealy. Neither here nor there.
Assasda Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 supposed to meet up with this girl friday night was tetxing her me:hey her:hey me: how are you me: feeling better? me: what time should i come down tomorrow her: what would tou rather do night or day? me: doenst matter i guess night her: ok me: wish i could se you tonight her: tonight/ me: yea lol her: oh yea lol i have class tonight though me: its cool tomorrow is fine lol was i clingy? Yes, you were needy
Fondue Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Just a random unrelated thought: Anyone else find this texting "style" just strange? I feel like if you're going to have a conversation, why not do it in person or by phone? I always texted every woman (and man/friend/etc.) that I know/knew with actual messages-- of context and value. Full, elaborated thoughts. These one liners (can you even call them that?) just seems... Eh. Maybe I dunno how to text properly. Then again, if I want to have a conversation, I call a person. Texts are were never a means of communication with someone. And never more than a few a day in total. 3
Assasda Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Just a random unrelated thought: Anyone else find this texting "style" just strange? I feel like if you're going to have a conversation, why not do it in person or by phone? I always texted every woman (and man/friend/etc.) that I know/knew with actual messages-- of context and value. Full, elaborated thoughts. These one liners (can you even call them that?) just seems... Eh. Maybe I dunno how to text properly. Then again, if I want to have a conversation, I call a person. Texts are were never a means of communication with someone. And never more than a few a day in total. Fondue nailed it on the head. That is exactly WHY it was a needy text. There was no substance. OP was basically saying "Talk to me about nothing, because I need your attention. I have nothing of substance to really say"
CatalystNX Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 If there's one thing that annoys me it's getting a text that says "hey." 2
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