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I always read about all these people who talk about their first love, about how intense it was and so on. I always see the couples kissing on the road.

 

I get so jealous and feel so inadequate when I see them. I want to cry sometimes. I don't know when I can tell a story like that or would this be my thing?

 

I feel so sad. I am 30 years old so young love is never going to happen. That opportunity is lost forever. I can only get imitations now. Coming of age never happened to me. I don't want to watch romantic comedies either. Especially teen romantic comedies, Ugh.

 

I did lose my virginity so maybe I need to reassure myself.

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Ahh don't be down, I know it sometimes feels like you'll never find someone you have chemistry with, but (and take it from someone who has very little social life) you never know when you're going to meet someone new that you'll click with.

 

My advice? Try doing things that will allow you to meet new people, maybe take up a new hobby. Not necessarily with the aim of meeting someone to fall in love with, but you will naturally open up and be sociable, and that friendliness will make you more approachable.. Also, not saying that you don't, but try to make an effort to look good. Again, not necessarily for other people, but you will automatically feel more attractive and confident. And since first impressions count, you're making yourself that much more approachable to meeting new guys.

 

Hope this helps :)

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Young love isn't all it's cracked up to be. I don't think you missed much.

 

That said, if you want a relationship, what are you doing to make that happen for yourself?

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OP I've just realised your post doesn't specify if you're male/female. I just assumed the latter but apologies if that's not the case.

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I always read about all these people who talk about their first love, about how intense it was and so on. I always see the couples kissing on the road.

 

I get so jealous and feel so inadequate when I see them. I want to cry sometimes. I don't know when I can tell a story like that or would this be my thing?

 

I feel so sad. I am 30 years old so young love is never going to happen. That opportunity is lost forever. I can only get imitations now. Coming of age never happened to me. I don't want to watch romantic comedies either. Especially teen romantic comedies, Ugh.

 

I did lose my virginity so maybe I need to reassure myself.

 

My good sir, you need to sit back and relax and really think about this!

Most of the young love memories are simply that, ....memories exist!

Notice how most of the recollections are from the past,

They are probably no longer together, think what you want to contrast.

 

As an old friend used to say, memories are often just bliss

Often times we find that the memories are much worse than we miss,

The "young love" you say, in my opinion, often goes hand in hand,

with being young, dumb, naive, and with no experience to stand.

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I always read about all these people who talk about their first love, about how intense it was and so on. I always see the couples kissing on the road.

 

I get so jealous and feel so inadequate when I see them. I want to cry sometimes. I don't know when I can tell a story like that or would this be my thing?

 

I feel so sad. I am 30 years old so young love is never going to happen. That opportunity is lost forever. I can only get imitations now. Coming of age never happened to me. I don't want to watch romantic comedies either. Especially teen romantic comedies, Ugh.

 

I did lose my virginity so maybe I need to reassure myself.

 

hahahaha

Are you going for sad sap of the year or what?

Your problem, isnt a problem at all

Whenever you think of crying over something like that, cry about something real, like people starving, probably in your own city

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Yeah, heard a woman talking about how her daughter just got proposed to get this...with a 6 carat ring.

 

Phssshhh!

 

 

I always read about all these people who talk about their first love, about how intense it was and so on. I always see the couples kissing on the road.

 

I get so jealous and feel so inadequate when I see them. I want to cry sometimes. I don't know when I can tell a story like that or would this be my thing?

 

I feel so sad. I am 30 years old so young love is never going to happen. That opportunity is lost forever. I can only get imitations now. Coming of age never happened to me. I don't want to watch romantic comedies either. Especially teen romantic comedies, Ugh.

 

I did lose my virginity so maybe I need to reassure myself.

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