Chasin Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 So my GF and I broke up a few weeks ago. She's young, needs to focus on herself and focus on her internship and I'm completely for that.. She tells me she had a little crush up there, it was nothing major at all, whatever, and it quickly faded. Though when I go on dates with friends except one (girls of course) she gets all insecure still and questions the date, then all of a sudden wants to talk to me and call me. Come the next day, she's whatever with me. Short with texts and what not and just seems to honestly not give a **** about me.. She tells me she really doesn't know what she wants, aside from focusing on herself right now, and its not fair to me since her feelings are everywhere and when she comes back, she'll know what she wants. There's been quite a few girls who've been..... Very flirtatious since I've been single and I can't come around to even look at them in attraction because I'm still madly in love with my ex and the "possibility". Plus she tells me she's not ready to give me closure, and I just cant seem to find myself attracted to other women without closure. That being said, what do I do? I know you've all been there. Though this is my first time being stuck in a rut like this, and I just can't seem to get out of it. Do I focus on myself as well and wait it out? Am I just being a hopeless romantic if I do so?
Assasda Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 For some reason, I think you've gotten tons of advice on this same question, but you keep on asking for some reason. The girl has you under her thumb, You are her puppy-dog, So she knows that she can, do whatever she wants, then come back, and you'll be there doting, and take her back You said it yourself that youre a hopeless romantic. So... Trying being less hopeless
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