Women are definately better at moving on! love breakup is my nemesis!

[BrainRightHeartWrong]

i've never broke up any of my LTR's

 

the last one i tried to maintain but it wasn't a total dumpee and dumper situation, she told me the other night i broke her heart ( don't know why )

 

talked to her last night... clearly she is so much more moved on than me ( totally not )

 

i am told i take no prisoners in life ( i.e. not let people piss me about but when it comes to lovers I go to pieces! )

 

and i don't... i am so strong when it comes to tackling unfair employers, family, friends or whatever... so why am I like this with girlfriends and exes?

 

infact i am always a leader when it comes to unfair treatment!!!!!! so why the hell am i so weak when dealing with girls?

 

?????????

[gwennebe]

I'm exactly the same also. Very strong when it comes to dealing with anything else life throws at me but when it comes to guys and breakups I'm so weak.

 

I have such a heart of gold I'm the type of person that tries to salvage all of my relationships with friends and SO's. I only broke up with two people in my entire life and that is because I was getting physically abused and it took me forever to be able to do that!!

[BrainRightHeartWrong]

nice to hear such from the opposite sex!

 

my ex told me two nights ago that i have a heart of gold... her friends tell me the same of her

 

she does have a heart of gold, she'd do anything to salvage her friendships with some people i consider bad for her yet she didn't do it with me!

 

i understand where you are coming from gwennebe!

 

big hug!

[katty]

I was under the impression that men move on more quickly. In my experience with my r/s and observing others the man seems to leave and never call or look back or give the ex a second thought. It was enlightening to me to find out that there is some men that feel like the female moves on faster.

Oh well I guess it just depends on the person and not the sex.

thanks for sharing.

Kat