WTP Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 I had a great relationship with a woman. I lied about my relationship status. I was separated, but told her I was divorced. We split, but have talked a lot. She wants to hang out, have occasional sex, with no emotional commitment. Is there a way I can swing this and truly win her heart again?
Atmosphere77 Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 So have sex with her. Do not push the feelings issue at all, and see if she comes around. No pun intended
Author WTP Posted November 12, 2014 Author Posted November 12, 2014 That is hard to do. I did NC for about a month. I sent her a handwritten letter. She contacted me, and agreed to lunch. Last weekend, she invited me on a weekend trip with family and friends. We had sex, and I thought we were back together. She then told me recently that she wants to just hang out and have sex. I'm gutted about the whole thing. I love her. I want her back in a real and meaningful way.
d0nnivain Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 Probably not. That is a HUGE lie. That said, if you are going to win her back, being in her bed is a great place to start. So if she's offering NSA sex, accept her terms then gradually over time after a few months woo her.
Author WTP Posted November 12, 2014 Author Posted November 12, 2014 I was just a couple months away from it being finalized. I know I did the wrong thing, and I've regretted it ever since. I'm not that kind of person. I just did something out of my usual character.
Atmosphere77 Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 I don't believe you lying about being divorced is the main reason either. Whatever you do, do not push her for a relationship at this time.
Author WTP Posted November 12, 2014 Author Posted November 12, 2014 Yes, the lie is the main reason. Believe me, that is the truth.
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