googoo Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 Hi all, I need your opinion on my situation that I'm facing right now. I have known her for around 3 month. For the first 2 months, everything is fine. We went out for dates. But recently, she acted like she is try to avoid me and some of text messages were ignored by her. Sometimes she reply with one-sentence kind of replies. I am planning to be honest with her about my intention. If I tell her that I would like to know her deeper and whether she is fine with it do guys think it is weird ? Especially from the her perspective. Thanks. 2
mariekatie Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 Hi all, I need your opinion on my situation that I'm facing right now. I have known her for around 3 month. For the first 2 months, everything is fine. We went out for dates. But recently, she acted like she is try to avoid me and some of text messages were ignored by her. Sometimes she reply with one-sentence kind of replies. I am planning to be honest with her about my intention. If I tell her that I would like to know her deeper and whether she is fine with it do guys think it is weird ? Especially from the her perspective. Thanks. I don't think it's weird. Its better to make yourself clear as she's fading away. If she rejects you, then she's just not the right one for you. We don't know why is she acting this way, maybe she lost interest, maybe she feel you won't be serious. There is many reasons to why she's like this and the only thing you could do is talk to her about it. Don't be afraid of being a loser or rejected, at least you tried your best. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Good luck!
Assasda Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 Yes it is weird. Dont tell this girl anything. She knows that you like her, or she wouldnt be trying to avoid you. Verbalizing that is going to pull her any closer, its just going to push her away. What you do if someone is trying to avoid you? You leave them the hell alone. Go out with other girls
StillDreaming Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 I would hold back from confessing any feelings. Try testing the waters by asking her out on another date. If she ignores that text, you'll know she's definitely not interested. I would move on at that point.
d0nnivain Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 If you got a whole sentence in response to a text that would be a LOT for me. I tend to send one word -- or 1 letter -- answers because I hate texting. I would rather her the person's voice. If she is pulling away, now is not the time for you to confess that you want something deeper. It's not what she wants to hear. Instead of telling her what you want, ask her what she wants, where she thinks the relationship is going.
Redhead14 Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 If you got a whole sentence in response to a text that would be a LOT for me. I tend to send one word -- or 1 letter -- answers because I hate texting. I would rather her the person's voice. If she is pulling away, now is not the time for you to confess that you want something deeper. It's not what she wants to hear. Instead of telling her what you want, ask her what she wants, where she thinks the relationship is going. She may be fading away because your intentions are not clear. On one hand, it is somewhat immature for her to fade because she doesn't know. She should be able to have that discussion with you if she indeed is hoping for more. On the other hand, she may feel it's too soon for her to bring it up. At this point, you have nothing to lose by having a conversation about what she wants and if she wants it with you. She is fading for whatever reason anyway, it would do not more damage to talk with her. 1
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