Gloria25 Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 Now, I don't know about any mystical stuff when it comes to two people, attraction and all that. I sorta believe in a woman's 6th sense and a sort of "connection" between two people...Maybe like how some animals let off a scent in heat that pulls them together. Anywho, I resolved to just back off and stop trying so hard with a guy I was crushing on. I'm not doing it to play games. More I'm doing it cuz I guess I've realized he's just not into me and whatever he's dealing with, if he decides he wants to speak to me one day - he knows how I feel about him and he knows how to contact me. Eh, I also am doing it in some sort of "self-preservation" to prepare myself to be let down. In other words, I rather take that step back and hurt now than his decision hurting me later. Anywho, I still decided to remain "friendly" if I see him, but will not initiate contact. Well, last night I try to get off with porn instead of thinking of him - and, that results in me "getting there" thinking of him AND, waking up to a wet dream about him. Shoot, I was even hoping that he's not up thinking about me...like sending that energy my way Then, walking about, recently, he literally pulls up behind me and I didn't even realize he was behind me til' he drove off. I don't know, it's all so weird. In my "getting off", I'm seeing him smirking at me while having sex with with me, then like him pulling up next to me today is like the universe pulling him to me saying "I know you were thinkin' about me..." Grrr.....
Rejected Rosebud Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 Is this that engaged neighbor of yours? I'm concerned that you are still kind of obsessed with him! 2
writergal Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 What's the story, morning Glory-ia? Is this guy taken already or is he single? If he's engaged to someone already, leave that can of worms unopened. You can find the guy for you. He's out there somewhere. And I don't believe in that horrible dating advice of "don't go looking for love, it will find you." Um, unfortunately in this day and age, we HAVE to look for love (online dating, meetups, social network connections, or at work, through hobbies), or we won't find it. I do agree with you though about having a 6th sense as far as relationships with people, as far as connections to each other. If you think about someone, it's like you are sending them energy and they will pick up on it and think about you at some point too. Has happened to me before. 1
Emilia Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 I don't know, it's all so weird. In my "getting off", I'm seeing him smirking at me while having sex with with me, then like him pulling up next to me today is like the universe pulling him to me saying "I know you were thinkin' about me..." Grrr..... It helps to realise that this is just your mind playing games with you Confirmation bias - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia 1
Rejected Rosebud Posted November 12, 2014 Posted November 12, 2014 I do agree with you though about having a 6th sense as far as relationships with people, as far as connections to each other. If you think about someone, it's like you are sending them energy and they will pick up on it and think about you at some point too. Has happened to me before. I agree too but sometimes people are imagining the mutual connection. Stalkers think they have that connection. Not saying you do OP of course! You don't! From your posts though I think there is too much fantasy here and nothing to hold onto really so stop yourself! 1
Author Gloria25 Posted November 12, 2014 Author Posted November 12, 2014 I agree too but sometimes people are imagining the mutual connection. Stalkers think they have that connection. Not saying you do OP of course! You don't! From your posts though I think there is too much fantasy here and nothing to hold onto really so stop yourself! Agreed, and that's why I'm trying to just put a stop to my delusional thinking here. Maybe instead of intentionally avoiding and/or ignoring him, I should just relax and stop putting effort into checking him out and/or trying to chat him up. Cuz, it seems like the harder I try at ignoring him, the more my mind starts playing these tricks with me. I mean, I don't think I'm delusional here. I don't believe I'm making up things in my head about him looking at me and being attracted to me. What I have to do is stop looking more into it than what it really is. I mean, guys walk down the street and see women that turn them on all day. Does that mean they're gonna walk up to her and chat her up and/or stop what's going on in their life cuz of a simple attraction? Nope.
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