L0nleyDude Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 I was head over heels for this girl. We first met but I wasn't too sure about her but after a couple of dates we seemed to have so much in common. I met her family and her 2 kids. No other guy other than her ex-husband had been around them. I started to spend more and more time with her and little things started to annoy her. I'm guessing I was too available but she also encouraged me to be around her. The day we broke up she told me she loves talking to me and that I'm perfect for her but she realised she needed some space. Anyways we have been broken up 2 months now and other than some LC the first 5 weeks it has been NC the last three weeks. I thought I was getting better but damn do I miss her. I am giving her as much space as she needs but I still can't get my head around breaking up something that was very fixable. I know NC is my best solution for getting myself better but can anyone shed some light on why something like this ends relationships?
lemonsugar Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Its never easy to say where it went wrong could be timing or anything. One thing is us women are complicated beings! Jjust try and get through it the best you can! Sometimes the harder you pull the quicker they run.
Mi7522 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Did you ask her when she broke up with you why she needed space? Some women need to figure out whether you are worth their time and investment especially if kids are involved. Maybe you scared her off with how much you were around her, maybe she just figured out you were not the one for her. Who knows? Only she does. Stay NC though and I think you will eventually realise that she may not be the one for you. I would give her a few months of you not being around and then see where things stand but right now you have to stay out of her life and let her figure out if she wants you or not
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