rockngrohl Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 So I will try to keep this story short... I dated this guy for around 3 months and things got quite intense quite fast. He wanted to see me all the time, was very affectionate and would text me all the time. I don't tend to let all my feelings out, so I would always wait for him to text me and ask to see me etc, so I don't think I was suffocating him. He would call me his girlfriend and we had a lot in common. It felt like things were going really really well, my family loved him and so did I, he was probably the first guy who I have had proper feelings for (I am 17). Anyway, towards the end of the summer he made a sudden decision to go to uni like about 3 weeks before it actually started. The uni he wanted to go to is about a 30 minute train journey away so I would hardly say its long distance. He would talk about our future as if we would still carry things on etc, told me he loved me and stuff. Anyway, he got to uni and ignored me for about 2 days, no texts nothing. I assumed he was probably busy, but I eventually asked him if he was ignoring me and his reply was "don't want to be a dick but i'm breaking up with you, it's a trek". (this was over text) I couldn't believe it...I didn't reply until the next day and he continued to ignore me. I chose to ring him because I had to speak to him and he basically said he really really liked me but it had to happen and there was "no other way". We have been no contact ever since...I have blocked him off all social media. Its been a little over 2 months. I still think about him everyday. I just need other peoples perspectives on this. I find it really hard to believe he didn't like me considering he was quite needy and always wanted to be around me. I know it wasn't other girls because I had seen his messages (he was with me). I don't know if it was because he didn't want it or felt it was too much or just wanted to have fun?? We are both very young but I would just really like to hear other peoples perspectives on this! I doubt he will speak to me again but I just want to know. Thanks!!
d0nnivain Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 You may have been a summer fling & he ended things when he found all the other options at uni. Sorry.
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