thelonewolflegend Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 (edited) Afraid to tell a guy and or just ignore them? Inwent off ob a few women wouldnt tslk to me tell them its bs..... <language redacted> Edited November 11, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Anderlie Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Can't imagine why they stop talking to you.... 5
Pyro Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Is their a translator available? Is that first asterisk word "answered"? 3
CoolCat771 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 (edited) Because they like attention and you give it to them. Edited November 11, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Author thelonewolflegend Posted November 11, 2014 Author Posted November 11, 2014 Look they ignored me for no reason so i went off.
oberkeat Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 (edited) OP, it's hard to give you constructive advice when your posts almost never make sense. I don't know if English is your second language, or what. Try writing something that's a little easier to follow, with complete sentences and you might get some better quality advice. Edited November 11, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 2
Brooke02 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Well if you talk anything like you type, maybe they didn't understand you...? 2
d0nnivain Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Most people are passive rather than direct because they don't relish hurting somebody else's feelings. It's easier to ignore hoping the person gets the hint then it is to be blunt & say I don't like you. 1
Redhead14 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Look they ignored me for no reason so i went off. They didn't need a reason and they don't owe you a reason. If someone ignores you, you ignore them. Trying to impose yourself on anyone, doesn't come off well. 1
BlueIris Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 (edited) No one has a responsibility to talk to you or go around blurting out how they feel. I highly doubt that you “were honest” and told them THE TRUTH: I really wish you’d talk to me. I’d really like your attention. I want you to like me. It makes me mad that you won’t pay attention to me. Get real. Edited November 11, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 2
William Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Cleaned up some non-conforming language and redacted quotes containing it.
truth_seeker Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Most people are passive rather than direct because they don't relish hurting somebody else's feelings. It's easier to ignore hoping the person gets the hint then it is to be blunt & say I don't like you. Yes. Also, there are women who act disinterested hoping the man will pursue them harder.
BlueIris Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Yes. Also, there are women who act disinterested hoping the man will pursue them harder. If I were a man, I would not want to date those women- especially if I were a man who wanted an authentic connection with someone who's honest with me. It sounds unnecessarily difficult and game-y. I wouldn't want to consent to game-playing. I'm just not good at it and I'd get impatient with it. I've dated a few men who don't like authenticity and directness, though, so maybe they're the guys best suited to the actresses and game-players.
somedude81 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Heh, women are very honest about about guys they don't like. They will tell are there friends about him, they just won't tell the guy If a girl tries to avoid a guy, that's a big sign. If she can't avoid him, she will barely talk and not make eye contact at all. That's just how women are. 1
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