Shocked 😳

[Mla]

Had a surprising email from my exs gf maybe I shouldn't have replied but glad I did! I think it will finally help me move on now iv given my side and I even snooped on his profile after this convo curious to see wa I was told about and felt nothin lookin at his pics and thought I hate u! Iv wasted all this time upset over tht! Convo went as follows:-

 

Hey hun dont want u getting involved but when u finished did he hack ur fb coz i think he has mine we been finished 2 weeks and hes already in a relationship im gobsmacked x

 

So sorry to hear this I feel for u Hun that's basically wa happened to me with u although it's clear u were both speakin before thy and maybe more so don't be shocked if that's wa happened to u I'm sure I come across him on tinder other day too couldn't wait to swipe left lol he was accusing me of hacking his account and tryin to add u and other people so who knows if it's somethin he'd too but I can assure u once we were finished I blocked and deleted everythin and never bothered him again! He had ordasity to email me and I ignored it I will never ever be interested in someone like tht again, I'm glad iv said tht now as I'm sure he painted a completely different story about me! I hope ur ok Hun I really do x

 

Yer the girl he is seeing is full of tattoos and about 20 face piercings when did u and dan actually finish hun he is so pathetic hr twists everything all he wanted to do was smoke weed anr stay in all the time and nevet wanted sex the last 3 months he even told mu daughter that i love cock and that no one loves her he use to say to me that you was bipolar and was nuts and always forced him to have sex all the time what a creep like its like he cant be on his own hes been telling the new one all along that we been finished 2 months had her on the phone saying she was gutted and they hadnt even met at that point when he was emailing u bbe when we was together was he trying to get back with u he used to get all my friends involved in our arguments practically stalking them u have made me feel so much better he made me feel like i was nuts x

 

Sounds exactly like wa he did to me history is repeatin itself hun but don't message his new gf he will accuse u of tryin to split them up and always puts his business openly on fb and will try makin u look like the psycho ex when actually it's him lol he was messagin his other ex while he was with me too she was a muppet to fall for it I sincerely hope u don't tok and take my attitude block delete and move on! It was pointless tellin u all this before for the reasons I just told u not to respond to his new gf but hopefully this will give u some clarity, he made me feel nuts too until I seen the fkin light! He will never ever change and ur right about him not bein able to be on his own ur better off without him jus like I am and feel sorry for tht girl she will have to put up with this now lol! I'm absolutely disgusted he said tht to ur daughter! I don't want kids and to think he was tryin to persuade me and I thought he'd be a good father after wa his situation is with his father Pffft lol chin up Hun ul be ok x

 

Yer he has bbe my friend just told me that now bbe calling me a psycho ex and all that **** awww so glad someone else can see him for what he is like me he was messaging me making me screen shot all my fb when he was the one doing it all along and dont get me started about his mam shes a complete head case sooo wish u would have told me before bbe awww he told me he wanted a baby and never wanted one with anyone else what a lyinh creep like the lies that come out of his mouth hun are something else yer i know i never met his dad bbe and he always lied about it awww yer he was shocking in the end with my daughter just hurt thats all that he cud move on so quick and he still denies it like x

 

Lol uv made me feel better now tht u can see wa I did with his mother and his lies lol jus laugh it off! Anyone who wants access to it personal info like tht is obv doin it themselves as u found out, I wasn't gonna say before as u was still together and doubt u would hav beleived me and he would have wormed his way out trust me! But now u can take the info for wa it, I dunno how u normally deal with break ups Hun but ur better off blockin and deletin as what u don't know won't hurt u and he will do and say everything he can to hurt u I assure u what a lucky escape we both had aye x

She was lovely at first then she turned but shes the same loves wedding cake and hates men this one has just left her 2 awww wish i knew before i got hurt like but yer ur right he would have wormed his way out of it bbe aww yer i need to block him now and just get on with it as hard as it is hun yer we both had a massive lucky escape all my friends hated him he was so antisocial we was living together like i was offered a council house in gelligaer and he begged me not to take it and to go for a house with him now he has left me with 600 pound s month rent and all the bills the prick yer fk him add me if u wan hun x

 

I remember hearing this girl laugh on phone wen I called him an thought she knew about me, and even if she didn't she had absolutely no consideration for my feelings yet I wanted this to happen to her and yet I feel sorry for her

 

I'm 26 be 27 soon we same age he left me for her who is 30 and now he has left her for 18 year old in exact time frame and circumstances as wa he did to me!

 

It will help me knock me off his pedistel and my perception of the perfect relationship he had but wen this happened to me he contacted his ex before getting with her and liked her pics wanted to get back and always spoke highly if her, I wanted him to miss and regret losin me and chase for me to knock him back but guess he jus moved on jus like tht again, so I must have been easily forgotten about

 

Sad reality is this whole year iv struggled compared not met many and wen I do get disappointed still miss and have feelings for him yet he can jus move on yet agsin jus like tht and doesn't suffer like the ex before me did, then me and now his recent ex, it's just not fair!

 

I'm determined to enjoy Christmas new year and my birthday this year as this time last year was heartbreaking and awful and ruined everything!!!!

 

I'm not adding her on fb I don't want to be friends! Iv said my bit now! She had to make new acc to message me as was blocked and I still felt like **** seein her pic I avoided answering some if her questions as unlike her I'm not strong enough to hear the truth, what I don't know won't hurt me

 

Would really appreciate feed back please

[Reels]

Hope you are not going to think otherwise or start missing her again. Keep it up.

[Mla]

Sorry don't know if this was clear this was the new girlfriend of my ex boyfriend who messaged me informin me he now left her for an 18 year old! I didn't know her so dunno y she messagin me especially wen she prob cheated with him on me dunno if she knew about me tho

[Mla]

Struggling to sleep again tonight mind won't switch off

[Reels]

She probably know a lot about you.

 

It looks like that he cannot be really interested in just anyone.