CaliGirl2888 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 I was talking to this guy for 3 weeks, The last time we've talked he texted me ''how are you'' I replied ''good, still adjusting to the move : / and you'' then he never responded. Its been 4 months and still haven't heard from him. I don't want to seem obviously desperate and say ''hi'' out of the blue, I feel weird doing it after 4 months of no contact. So I was thinking of sending an ''accidental'' text to him to possibly strike up a conversation. Is that lame? (Im sure it is) But I want to know if he is interested. Or maybe he is not interested...What should I do? Why can't I move past this?
losangelena Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Don't think there's anything desperate about saying "hi" four months later. Desperate would be hounding him daily because he won't respond. Say hello; what do you have to lose? If he says hello back, great. If not, you're no worse than you were before. 1
Yookie Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 4 months later? Seriously don't say anything. His attention is on someone that he's really interested in at this point. (hint: it's not you.) 1
irresolute Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Just listen to this before you send an accidental embarrassment: He is not interested. He wasnt 4 months ago, he isnt now and he probably never be. Move on.
candie13 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 I was talking to this guy for 3 weeks, The last time we've talked he texted me ''how are you'' I replied ''good, still adjusting to the move : / and you'' then he never responded. Its been 4 months and still haven't heard from him. I don't want to seem obviously desperate and say ''hi'' out of the blue, I feel weird doing it after 4 months of no contact. So I was thinking of sending an ''accidental'' text to him to possibly strike up a conversation. Is that lame? (Im sure it is) But I want to know if he is interested. Or maybe he is not interested...What should I do? Why can't I move past this? trust me, if he was interested, he would have let you know. Yes, it is that simple... get some new dates to boost your self esteem and delete that bloke's number. You might get some bright ideas when drunk so best to not go that path.
Arieswoman Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Cali, I'm puzzled How to approach someone who ignored me? Why would you want to approach someone who ignored you? Duh ??
InsaneTrombone Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 He's not interested in the slightest anymore. Maybe because of you, maybe because something or someone popped into his life.
Mrin Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 What do you have to lose? Sure, give it a try. The "hi" that is. Not the accidental text.
martaldn Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 there is absolutely nothing desperate in texting someone after 4 months! send him a text and see how and if he replies. then you take it from there.. good luck 1
ExpatInItaly Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 3 weeks of talking vs. four months of silence. He's not interested anymore. I wouldn't bother with it.
Yookie Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 there is absolutely nothing desperate in texting someone after 4 months! There is when the person couldn't be bothered to respond to your text 4 months ago. She should leave it alone unless she wants another round of hit it and quit it.
martaldn Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 There is when the person couldn't be bothered to respond to your text 4 months ago. She should leave it alone unless she wants another round of hit it and quit it. People could not reply to messages for many reasons not only because they are not interested.
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