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I live less than 5 minutes from my library and thought about volunteering. I am in my early 30s and I am fortunate and don't have to work. So I have nothing but time on my hands. I thought if I volunteered at my local library I might meet single guys. Is this a good idea?

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I'd be curious how that works out, in my area the intellectuals go to large bookstore retail chains, some. and study at home. The library has very old folks, staff, a few children. I view libraries as a dead enterprise, but your interest is not in the lib business, but rather people, not in this town. I'd be curious.

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Maybe. The gym is a good place to meet single guys too. I mean, I'm single and that's where I spend a lot of my time :laugh:

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Meetup has a lot of volunteer groups, activities.

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Other than the opportunity to meet single guys, free time and proximity to the library, do you have any other reason to be volunteering there?

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Are they any activities you enjoy that you can do with other people that men would also do?

 

IMO a good place to meet guys is in a dance class.

 

Look for a place that has swing dancing lessons. You'd get so much attention from a variety of guys.

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Are they any activities you enjoy that you can do with other people that men would also do?

 

IMO a good place to meet guys is in a dance class.

 

Look for a place that has swing dancing lessons. You'd get so much attention from a variety of guys.

 

Dancing class would not work for me. I am to self conscious to do that.

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I live less than 5 minutes from my library and thought about volunteering. I am in my early 30s and I am fortunate and don't have to work. So I have nothing but time on my hands. I thought if I volunteered at my local library I might meet single guys. Is this a good idea?

 

I'm the kind of guy you'd likely meet at a local library. I go to do research or just meet local writing groups that I belong to.

 

But, I'm also not the kind of guy you'd want to date. So take that as you may...

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Maybe.

 

I doubt you will meet a lot of guys but if you like reading & intellectual guys, you might meet someone more to your tastes

 

As a pure #s game, it is not the 1st place I would think of to meet a lot of men. For that try a bar; any type of sports event; the local firehouse or police department; a local gym; groups like the Elks, Moose, Lions, Kiwanis, etc.

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