kidinfo1 Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I was wondering what your guys opinion is on moving fast in a relationship. I'm not talking a one-sided relationship where one person wants to move faster than the other. I'm talking about two people who just are generally moving fast without even planning it i.e. saying "I love you" early or spending a lot of time with each other, or even not being able to see yourself without them in the future. I know it's not normal, but is it completely abnormal if its a mutual thing and it's not forced? What if you've been really good friends for a long time and it finally just clicked? I think sometimes you just get lucky and find the right one
mammasita Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 In most all cases, yes - I'm sure there is a small percentage of exceptions. Yes because you don't get to know each other and see how one another will react in different situations regardless of how mutually "fast" the parties are plowing ahead. IMO, even if you are friends for a long time and then begin a relationship you can still move too fast because the dynamic of your relationship changes and people will act differently.
Assasda Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 It wont work mutually. There is going to be one person that is moviing faster than the other. - Moving fast in the relationship, is usually a trait of insecurity. So the idea of 2 insecure people going in fast, is just going to make them crash even faster. - Also its less liking to happen between friends. So all this is all wrong. Hopefully youre not going through any of this OP
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