LisaSmith_1970 Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I've heard both sides of the story, girls always say when you have sex like on the 1st or 2nd date, the guy won't respect you, he'll hit it and leave. But I don't know, now a days, I don't see why a girl can't have sex on the 2nd date, lust is important.
sagamore Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Every single one of my meaningful relationships started with sex on the first date. Including my now husband! I like sex. I've always had a high drive and it's important to me. I never, ever, ever had a problem with someone taking me seriously as a person of value. Or maybe I was just that f*cking good 2
Andy_K Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Every single one of my meaningful relationships started with sex on the first date. Including my now husband! I like sex. I've always had a high drive and it's important to me. I never, ever, ever had a problem with someone taking me seriously as a person of value. Or maybe I was just that f*cking good It's about picking the right guys, which it sounds like you have a knack for. The truth is that if a guy doesn't respect you after sex on a first date, he didn't really respect you before the sex either. Or has little respect for women in general. You have to wonder... Why would a guy have sex if he knew he would lose respect for her afterwards? It's just revenge. His way of getting back at women in general for all the 'wrong' they've done him. Guys who actually like women don't do that. 2
BeholdtheMan Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Personally, I have nothing against women who don't have sex because they don't want to have sex. I have a hard time respecting a woman who doesn't have sex despite wanting to have sex...because she's afraid that other chicks might try to label her a slut. I'm not a slave to social pressure and I like a girl who has a will of her own 1
candie13 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 as a woman, you might want to play it safe. Going to a complete stranger's house in not the brightest idea I've ever heard of. if you want to guy to call back, don't offer yourself on a silver platter, make him wonder. If all you want is sex, at least go to a hotel where people can hear you if anything goes wrong. Cross this one out and set up some new dates - fastest way to heal a wounded ego
veggirl Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 I think it's best to wait and wouldn't consider what you did to be really avoiding sex early in dating. Waiting is more like public dates and no hands on genitals, not movies in bed.
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