Thegreatestthing Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 That's how long I took to reply to this guys email, and I basically just said I have a bf but that I wasn't crazy about him,and some other ****.would you reply to this? I don't know if I should expect a reply really.i don't care that much,
Lani Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I wouldn't reply after that long, no. Especially not if it were to someone telling me they had a boyfriend who they weren't that interested in. How do you know this guy?
Author Thegreatestthing Posted November 10, 2014 Author Posted November 10, 2014 Oh he's been emailing me a bit,I knew him ages ago I never reply but this time (tonight)I had some Vodka hahah and just replied this long thing about how I have a bf now,how he (the guy) would stuff me around,and how I'm not mad about my bf (I do love him tho)
Assasda Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 If you dont care, why are you asking this? 6
Lani Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 If you dont care, why are you asking this? This. And... If you're not mad about your boyfriend, enough so that you are telling other guys about it, then I think you should break up with him. For his own sake. 3
PegNosePete Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I would not respond to a woman who had a boyfriend, whether it was 10 days, 10 hours or 10 minutes. 6
gaius Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I've had people send me a reply months after. Normally I take it as a sign they're not into the conversation and don't continue but on rare occasion I've replied. I guess it would depend on how dependent his ego is on you.
Keenly Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 When a woman says " I have a boyfriend but not crazy about him " A guy hears " I'm willing to cheat or leave this man for some.one else " and all respect goes out the window. Who wants to invest emotionally with some one known to jump ship? 5
Assasda Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 When a woman says " I have a boyfriend but not crazy about him " A guy hears " I'm willing to cheat or leave this man for some.one else " and all respect goes out the window. Who wants to invest emotionally with some one known to jump ship? Totally agree with this. The guy might sleep with the girl. Might even get in a relationship with the girl, but will never respect her 1
Author Thegreatestthing Posted November 10, 2014 Author Posted November 10, 2014 Yes I totally agree,my bf was so sweet and good to me this morning I actually felt completely sick to my stomach about it all,my bf is adoring, and just lost his job and I'm doing this.arghh. plus this guy (the one I replied too) his last girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend so I think he'd have a very poor opinion of it all.I'd just had vodka I wasn't thinking right when I wrote.
fortyninethousand322 Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 That's how long I took to reply to this guys email, and I basically just said I have a bf but that I wasn't crazy about him,and some other ****.would you reply to this? I don't know if I should expect a reply really.i don't care that much, The ten days would not faze me. I don't exactly have women forming a line outside my door. Ten days, ten weeks, maybe even ten years. I'll respond (I responded to a girl after she took 2 months to respond to me once). The boyfriend thing would faze me though. I'm not exactly interested in being a side piece or a "friend"...
Elias33 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Don't expect much from a man who replies to that.
CoolCat771 Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 That's how long I took to reply to this guys email, and I basically just said I have a bf but that I wasn't crazy about him,and some other ****.would you reply to this? I don't know if I should expect a reply really.i don't care that much, Maybe I would but I would have no expectations andmy respect meter would drop to a 2 concerning her
SawtoothMars Posted November 11, 2014 Posted November 11, 2014 Yes I totally agree,my bf was so sweet and good to me this morning I actually felt completely sick to my stomach about it all,my bf is adoring, and just lost his job and I'm doing this.arghh. plus this guy (the one I replied too) his last girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend so I think he'd have a very poor opinion of it all.I'd just had vodka I wasn't thinking right when I wrote. You are not a quality person. Vodka is not an excuse for this kind of behavior. The only fix at this point would be honesty with your BF about what you just did. He deserves to know what kind of person he is dating and make an informed choice!
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