nirvanax90 Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 so this happened so random that I don't even know what she meant. ive been having a sexual relationship with this woman for about 5 months now, shes also a good friend of mine. so about 5 days ago she texts me this message telling me that she never expected anything to happen between us and she had given herself too much to me. but that she was greatful because she had learn lots of things from me and that she was thankful for that. so I jokingly asked her if she was writing a farewell letter and all she said is " life is a mystery" . so I invited her to meet that day and talk about this in person, she told she had an "important event" my response was that if she cared at all about our situation to cancel the event and meet me that night. she insisted and told me that she couldn't that night, that any other day would be fine. but I replied this , " don't worry about it because there wont be another day. I don't really know what happened? everything was fine before that, we were very active and now this happened? any thoughts on this?
ExpatInItaly Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 so this happened so random that I don't even know what she meant. ive been having a sexual relationship with this woman for about 5 months now, shes also a good friend of mine. so about 5 days ago she texts me this message telling me that she never expected anything to happen between us and she had given herself too much to me. but that she was greatful because she had learn lots of things from me and that she was thankful for that. so I jokingly asked her if she was writing a farewell letter and all she said is " life is a mystery" . so I invited her to meet that day and talk about this in person, she told she had an "important event" my response was that if she cared at all about our situation to cancel the event and meet me that night. she insisted and told me that she couldn't that night, that any other day would be fine. but I replied this , " don't worry about it because there wont be another day. I don't really know what happened? everything was fine before that, we were very active and now this happened? any thoughts on this? Are you always that demanding and manipulative? If so, that could very well be the reason she bailed. Not attractive. Leave her alone for now. She could have met someone else or just decided she didn't want to participate in a FWB arrangement anymore.
Author nirvanax90 Posted November 10, 2014 Author Posted November 10, 2014 Are you always that demanding and manipulative? If so, that could very well be the reason she bailed. Not attractive. Leave her alone for now. She could have met someone else or just decided she didn't want to participate in a FWB arrangement anymore. she never says no to me, so I was a bit upset
ExpatInItaly Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 she never says no to me, so I was a bit upset Upset or not, that type of demand is not the mature response. You may have put the nail in the proverbial coffin for that.
Author nirvanax90 Posted November 10, 2014 Author Posted November 10, 2014 Upset or not, that type of demand is not the mature response. You may have put the nail in the proverbial coffin for that. well it wont be the first time that has happened lol. I guess her prince charming came to the rescue this time
Author nirvanax90 Posted November 10, 2014 Author Posted November 10, 2014 Sounds like she may have met someone. im feeling that vibe too
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