Poppyolive Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 So, I met/started chatting with a guy on POF almost a year ago. He is a 2 hour ferry distance away. We began chatting, after a few months moved to texting, almost daily. Background: I was fresh out of a five year relationship, went on a few dates with other men, nothing past a few dates, i guess I wasn't ready, but enjoyed finding me & having ocassional dates. This pof guy and I had a great back and fourth, funny, joke sharing, music sharing friendship. I wasn't in any hurry to meet him, but enjoyed our friendship. This weekend he came to visit, we're both 32. I was so nervous, that I'd built up a picture of him and worried it would be terrible. I'd seen a whole bunch of photos of him, si I knew he was a cutie. We met, and didn't stop laughing & chatting for hours. From 3pm yesterday, back to mine for a drink, we chatted and laughed til 4 am. I'm a weary one when it comes to relationships and I sense he was too. We fell asleep next yo each other. He rubbed my hand to sleep and we spooned. No make out, no sex. Today was my birthday, I had a big brunch party, he came along. Chatting, laughter, eye contact, attraction was there, or at least the attraction part was there for me....so after 30 hours together, He just left. No kiss, no make out, no sex, just an awkward leave, hugging, laughing... No here's my question, I'm not a pouncer and I sense he isn't either, I wanted to. I do sense he was attracted to me, through eye contact and chemistry. But here's the thing, I'm not exactly sure. Could holding me to sleep alone stand as attraction & feelz for me? I know time will tell, especially our chats from today. I really like him. I wanted to kiss him. Thoughts? Advice my lovelies?? I feel.like I'm 15.
Brooke02 Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 Has he asked you out on another date yet? 1
BlueIris Posted November 13, 2014 Posted November 13, 2014 Maybe. I would say kiss him some day if he doesn’t kiss you. Just enjoy him and the butterflies. They don't come often. Don’t sign any documents or commingle any assets, and you’re good. 1
Author Poppyolive Posted November 13, 2014 Author Posted November 13, 2014 Well ask out on date...no. We live a ferry ride apart, also I'm on holidays in the uk for a few weeks. Texts have been flowing, so I'm pretty sure he has a few feelz. When I wrote this post, he had just left. So I was left wandering in thoughts of maybe there was no feelz from him, because no actual move. Spoon yes.... But now there's been more texts makes me think he's interested, coz if he wasn't he would fade out. Thanks for taking the time in replying. I'm a 33 feeling like I'm 12.
Brooke02 Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Oh good! Happy for you:) I know what you mean, I've been going on dates with a new guy, I feel like a teenager myself.
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