pygora1994 Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I am still dealing with the emotional fallout from the break-up in March. I haven't been in contact with him since August when he stopped returning my messages. He blocked me on social media, back in march and our communication was limited from that point. I was clingy and stupid after the break up and said somethings I wasn't proud of. It was my fault that we broke up. It was over a stupid fight that I didn't have any business starting, and it spiraled out of control. I apologized, but he didn't accept my apology. We had a mutual friend that ended up becoming close to me, but she drifted away and said she wasn't comfortable being friends with me anymore. I don't know what happened, between us that caused the sudden shift in feelings. I feel bad about the falling out because it was completely unexpected, and didn't seem like her normal self. In the process she stopped being friends with another one of her friends that I befriended. That friendship was much older and stretched back since 9th grade (she is a senior in college). After a dating spree, some false starts I finally started dating someone new and It has been going on for about a month. I'm not sure about my feeling to my new boyfriend, but I do have an interest in continuing to date him. Yesterday I noticed that my ex had unblocked me from facebook because we still share mutual friends, and he showed up under "people you may know" and in some posts. I feel really torn about it. I have no idea why he unblocked me. Part of me wants to reach out to him and see if he wants to talk, and possibly be friends, but part of me wants to just leave well enough alone. I realize that we weren't the best for each other, and I am truly sorry for hurting him and driving him away. I also feel a little selfish because I want him to forgive me. I have absolutely no intention of ever dating him, and I don't have feelings for him like I used to, but I do miss the friendship we had.
Reels Posted November 10, 2014 Posted November 10, 2014 I think you should try to talk him, you shall feel free. 1
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