What do men/women think sexually of single/divorced/widowed?

[Timshel]

What do you guys and gals think of single women? (divorced, widow, single) I have been propositioned by so many married men since widowed/single. WTF? I have to say that these men live only a couple doors down from me (burbs.) How did they think that was going to work? More importantly for myself, why would they think I would even go for it?? What is your opinion about being a single woman and being treated like all I want is sex?

[smackie9]

You live in one F'd up neighborhood.

 

If this happened to me, I would gather the evidence and tell their wives.

[Timshel]

Why would I immediately tell wives? What point would that serve?

[Ninjainpajamas]

Sounds like they had their eyes on you for quite a while and now that you're single they're trying to pounce you.

 

They don't know if you would go for it or not, as many women would and many others would not, it just depends on where you are emotionally and that can vary, if you are vulnerable then that's a pretty easy lay in their eyes.

 

They don't necessarily want anything to come out of it, they just want to by and large have sex with your lower half...why women always assume something has to come out of it, is a bit baffling to me as if that is even necessary or within their minds at all.

 

I mean who cares really....they're marred...they've got limited options and in their eyes nothing to lose.

[Timshel]

So you are saying Ninja, that they are testing the water. Seeing if I will engage or not? Am I an easy target?

[smackie9]

Why would I immediately tell wives? What point would that serve?

 

So if your husband was propositioning the next door neighbor lady, you would rather not know?

[Timshel]

This is the problem, we all live here and will be for some time. You think living in this neighborhood, I should randomly ring a door bell and say Hi your husband just propositioned me?

[smackie9]

Easier solution...just tell them maybe you will ask their wife if it's ok with her.

[smackie9]

To answer your question, they figure you are so emotionally weakened, you are easy pickins. OR one of them made up a BS story that you were shelling out at the drop of a hat....great rep.

[Tayken]

@OP...this is happening because a lot of this happens in many burbs where neighbours bang each other / wife swap / and widows play it up especially in the summer pretending to cut the lawn in tight top and short shorts.

 

We aren't just talking Wisteria lane here...

[Timshel]

Yeah, I know some women do that and I think it's crazy. I don't. I dress conservatively and keep to myself.

I was just wondering, do men automatically think single women are easy these days? Are single women easy?

[Emilia]

I was just wondering, do men automatically think single women are easy these days? Are single women easy?

I think it might be that it's bothering you. It's not even something I would notice all that much. Guys do it in the office, sometimes under the influence, sometimes sober. I just shrug and walk away. Just ignore it.

[Timshel]

Yeah that's what I mean ladyluck, it's as though I MUST be in desperate need. What an assumption to make. I thought we were in 2014 not 1890. It's not just the men either, women treat me like I might try to steal their man and are always saying "you need a boyfriend." Really? Thanks for telling what I need.

 

I was just wanting some male and female opinions/experiences on this.

[Toodaloo]

Am I the ONLY woman in the world not banging away or being chased down for sex???

 

I am considering moving... Where is it you say you live OP???

 

Oh the married already bit...

 

... OK glad I am not the only one