jackinthebox1 Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 Last weekend i got a text off my ex at 3am asking where i was. After going out tonight and seeing what's out there, i now understand what that was about. The standard of partners out there is shockingly low. Sure, they may break up with you excited at what is to come but trust me, they are in that bar with their friends comparing everyone to you, and unless Ryan Gosling walks in, they are going to go home crying their eyes out and missing you. The more they drink and the longer they look around at what is out there, the more they are going to be prone to regretting. Break ups are a test. They test every part of your character. The great thing about NC is they have to sit in that bar wondering what you are doing, while they get hit on by complete idiots. If you are NC , stay strong in the fact that the longer you give them, the more miserable they will become. And stay out of bars, and away from alcohol. There are loads better ways to meet new partners
Mr.Teardrop Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 You helped me a lot in this moment with your post . It's Sunday, persuasing myself to concetrate on work at home, but no, I'm checking my phone on and off and convincing myself not to call or text. You convinced me to not break it and show her that I miss her like crazy and think about her. ****, it's hard.
Author jackinthebox1 Posted November 9, 2014 Author Posted November 9, 2014 They cant miss you if you keep contacting them. Stay strong! 1
Chatmonkey Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 Keeping nc but we keep occasionally walking past each other. I kind of just ignore her, but I don't want to come across bitter. Still haven't spoken, but when we walk past it is annoying!
NopeNah Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 Wish I had stayed out of the bar! Scoped the lot to make sure her car wasn't there..walked in and 5min after being there noticed her across the room. Guess her friend drove her. Mild setback today. I only spoke to her on the way out to have a good night. Oh well.
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