SycamoreCircle Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 Almost 8 months NC on a live-in gf who lied, cheated and smeared me. It was the worst thing I've ever experienced in my life. Since the break up, I have faltered and looked at her FB page. The first thing you see is a pic of me. It's a portrait that she painted of me that hung in a gallery. About 3 months after our break up, I saw that she had painted a self-portrait looking very upset. The title alluded to her break up. Someone on FB made a passing comment about it. She took it as an opportunity to say something like, "the only satisfying thing about the relationship was the food I ordered out." What can I say? We were inseparable for an entire year. Until she met this other guy. Things changed then. Why does she disparage me, my personality, my intelligence, my sexual prowess to whoever, but keeps the portrait she made of me as her FB theme?
Tayla Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 I think your signature says it all. Move along , the past is history.
dclan Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 Almost 8 months NC on a live-in gf who lied, cheated and smeared me. It was the worst thing I've ever experienced in my life. Since the break up, I have faltered and looked at her FB page. The first thing you see is a pic of me. It's a portrait that she painted of me that hung in a gallery. About 3 months after our break up, I saw that she had painted a self-portrait looking very upset. The title alluded to her break up. Someone on FB made a passing comment about it. She took it as an opportunity to say something like, "the only satisfying thing about the relationship was the food I ordered out." What can I say? We were inseparable for an entire year. Until she met this other guy. Things changed then. Why does she disparage me, my personality, my intelligence, my sexual prowess to whoever, but keeps the portrait she made of me as her FB theme? To be honest your ex gf seems to be ****ed up in the head. It could mean lots of things, but I don't think you should waste time wondering why she is doign things.
edgygirl Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 I hope you are not facebook friends with her anymore. If you are, immediately delete her and block her as well. People do stupid things, to feel better about themselves. Sometimes the dumpers also get depressed by the breakup and try to justify it in their heads. In any case, she doesn't seem like a very nice person... the good part is you should keep it in mind, it will make it easier for you to forget her.
TigerLilly78 Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 It sounds like shes a narcissist if thats the case it could simply be she likes that panting SHE did..meaning its not about you at all but how great she thinks she did it..just an idea ive found those types to be like this even when you think they are thinking about someone else they twist it to some how make it about themselves...
Itspointless Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 People do stupid things, to feel better about themselves. Sometimes the dumpers also get depressed by the breakup and try to justify it in their heads. Yes, she probably uses the painting to justify her own story of it. Try to be bigger than that and move on. Good luck.
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