sprotz Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 This is a very long story, but I'll make it as short as possible but at the same time understandable. I'm 32, born in Russia to a Russian mother, and Ugandan father. Therefore I grew up in Uganda. All this time I could't get a girlfriend. I had one in childhood when I was 12 but little beyond that. I am extremely shy and seemingly lack courtship skills/instincts. Recently I posted this issue somewhere on the internet, and one of the users responded with a statement like: " You are either ugly, or stupid ". But little does that person know how difficult it is to find any pretty girls outside the US, in some countries, at least. If he (assuming he was male) were to move to Malaysia, where I was, he would cry badly and violently leave that country, because there hardly any decent women in that country. Most people are ugly, and the men outnumber women. But from what has been going on in my life, it is as though fate was preventing me from getting a girlfriend. It was my childhood dream. And yet everywhere I go, the places seem to be devoid of any decent girls, or at least ones I like. To summarize, I was forced from Russia as a child and forced to grow up in Uganda, thereby cutting me off from any girls that I like and preventing me from getting a high school sweetheart. Then in another twist of fate, I was sent to London, to a tiny college (it wasn't even a college, just an accounting office that doubled as a college), with 30 students, thereby cutting me off from any potential girls. It was by this point I realized what fate was playing at and I stopped chasing girls. Then I returned to Uganda briefly, and sent to Russia to university where government oppression of foreign students put me off from staying there. So I returned to Uganda again, and sent to Malaysia to another university, and guess what. Again no girls, at least not ones that I like. So I left that place, completely tired of what fate is doing to me, and I keep pondering why. So that's that. If you want the full story (the much longer story), I can post it on my website. As for why fate is doing this to me, or if it is fate at all, I would like to hear what you think.
Mister Zen Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 Once you finish your studies and get a good job you will get a girlfriend easy. But here in the U.S. there is a trade off. The women are better looking, but many are also very bossy, flighty, flaky, elusive, slutty, and emotionally unstable. In the majority of American relationships, the woman rules over the man. Most American men these days just accept servitude in a relationship. I see them at the mall every week.... head hanging, carrying bags from Macy's or Target, while their girlfriend/wife walks ahead of them as though he were a mule texting and talking about sales and other assorted BS...
Author sprotz Posted November 9, 2014 Author Posted November 9, 2014 It is about numbers as well as quality. Certain types of girls are childlike, lively and playful, and the more the numbers, the more chance of finding these types of girls. American girls are the loveliest from my experience.
preraph Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 You need to move to the place you think you best fit in to find the right woman. Once school is done, take control of your life and go where you want to go.
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