X14Halo Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 (edited) I seem to have no problem starting up relationships. Things always go amazing for the first 2 months. After that though it is always the same thing - The girl loses interest in me even though she seemed very interested in the beginning, saying how much she likes me, etc... I am 29 years old and the longest relationship I have ever had was 3 months. And it is always the girl who ends it - "it's not you, it's me. you are a dream guy to date, but I'm just not ready" I'm getting so tired of hearing that. It's starting to get a little embarrassing telling girls this if they ask about past relationships. They think there must be something wrong with me. I am a completely normal and successful guy though, who treats women far too nice. I go above and beyond to make them happy, and to show how much I like them, because I always do. And I just want them to give back. What gives? I feel that every relationship I'm in, I fall so deeply for the girl just 1-2 months in. I'm just head over heels in love from the start on every occasion (I have never said "I love you" though). I have never even so much as gotten into an argument with a girlfriend. Things always go so smooth and we just do things that we both enjoy, until I find out she doesn't have feelings for me. I think that I just want to be loved, and I am like a love-sick puppy. Any time attention is given to me I feel bliss. Any advice? Edited November 8, 2014 by X14Halo
organizedchaos Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 I seem to have no problem starting up relationships. Things always go amazing for the first 2 months. After that though it is always the same thing - The girl loses interest in me even though she seemed very interested in the beginning, saying how much she likes me, etc... I am 29 years old and the longest relationship I have ever had was 3 months. And it is always the girl who ends it - "it's not you, it's me. you are a dream guy to date, but I'm just not ready" I'm getting so tired of hearing that. It's starting to get a little embarrassing telling girls this if they ask about past relationships. They think there must be something wrong with me. I am a completely normal and successful guy though, who treats women far too nice. I go above and beyond to make them happy, and to show how much I like them, because I always do. And I just want them to give back. What gives? I feel that every relationship I'm in, I fall so deeply for the girl just 1-2 months in. I'm just head over heels in love from the start on every occasion (I have never said "I love you" though). I have never even so much as gotten into an argument with a girlfriend. Things always go so smooth and we just do things that we both enjoy, until I find out she doesn't have feelings for me. I think that I just want to be loved, and I am like a love-sick puppy. Any time attention is given to me I feel bliss. Any advice? That's you're problem right there. No one falls in love that fast. I'm sure women can sense you fall too fast and they haven't and scares them off. Just be cool and take it slow. Let her determine the pace of the relationship.
Col1 Posted November 9, 2014 Posted November 9, 2014 I seem to have no problem starting up relationships. Don't push for a relationship or commit to one right away. Make her feel she has earned it. Things that take effort are valued more.
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