Gavichal Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 So I'm very very good friends with this girl, we talk a whole lot, almost every night, we see eachother like once a week at least, and she talks to me about her problems and just about anything and everything. After being strictly good friends for a few months, I've started liking her a whole lot lately and she's started calling me 'doll' and 'lovely' and really seeming like she cares. She's very touchy feely and we often hug, in the middle of town or around people, she'll sometimes cling onto my arm if she's tired or cold, or sometimes put my arm around her. She talks to me about how much of a dick her ex was and mentions finding someone nice. So last night, I messaged her saying hey, and she messaged back "Heya beautiful ;o" and we agreed to get food tomorrow. So my question is, do I have a chance? Does it seem like she's interested?
Jame22 Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 It sounds like she sees you as her girlfriend. You need to go in for the kiss ASAP. It might be too late but it's worth a shot.
preraph Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 Take her to a movie, pay for her stuff so she gets that it's a real date, and put your arm around her there or hold her hand and see how she reacts. Sounds to me like she likes you. But you can never be sure until you try touching. If she says "WHAT ARE YOU DOING???" then I guess not. But if she lets you continue to hold her hand, then kiss her sometime soon.
Jules Dash Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 You are very safe to her. You are someone she can talk about shoes and dresses with. Keep your expectations low. 1
LustAppeal Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 Hey man, you need to start building a more intimate connection with her. This means you need to push past your comfort zone and show her you see her as more than just a friend. I've been friend zoned multiple times throughout my life and this is a common situation before being placed in that zone of only being a friend. Now no one here is psychic and without being able to see you two interact in person (AKA your bodylanguage) it really is hard to determine if she's trying to make a more or get you to make a move. One thing I liked to do, just to test the boundaries, was to hug her and not let go for at least 6 seconds. Why is this? Because it takes around six seconds for the Dopamine to react in your brain and for the hug to send your message. When couples seek therapy in order to restore the spark most therapists will instruct to do the same thing in order to bring touch back into the relationship. You don't want to touch what you don't like, so this really shows what your intentions are on a subconscious level. Hope this helps, remember there are allot of indicators out there, study body language sometime 1
J21 Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 Push the boundaries from regular friends to dating zone. ie: holding hands, putting arms around her, hugs, etc. Better to find out for sure than make speculations.
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