Heyhey8080 Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago because she said that she was too busy with school and I deserved someone that could spend more time with me to go on dates and have regular sex instead of once every few weeks. She felt like a terrible girlfriend, especially because I mentioned that she was acting different lately and being distant. It was too hard on her. We cried, we hugged, and I went home feeling that we could maybe be friends because it wasn't her fault. Then I thought that maybe she was letting me down easy and I went through a whole range of emotions. A week after, I saw that she wasn't wearing the anniversary necklace and she was hanging out with a girl she previously hated. I was hurt, so I blocked her on Facebook to not drive myself crazy. Not to get revenge on her, but to move on. I signed up on a site to meet people (*not* a dating site) that she told me about a long time ago and I saw her account so I looked at it. She deleted her account the next day probably because she saw at I visited her profile and I was stalking her, which is not the case. I was curious and only looked once. She has now deleted and blocked my friends and family from all social media. I feel like it's getting ugly in the Internet realm. My question is, how do I recover from this situation and talk to her again after three weeks?
jackinthebox1 Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 Disappear. No Contact. Wait it out All you have is time. Be patient and start to move on
Author Heyhey8080 Posted November 7, 2014 Author Posted November 7, 2014 That makes sense. Gotta work on myself whether she's here or not. It's either talk to her and be needy or give time for her negative feelings to go away and let her wonder what I am doing. If it's meant to be, she'll come back, right?
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