fifipheebs Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 i was sick with stomach flu and i asked a male friend to swing by and drop off some over the counter for me. he wouldnt but he checked up on my several times during the day. before you say he didnt want to catch the virus, he could have left the bag on my porch. was he afraid i would read into his actions as he may have feelings? therefore he was a jerk on purpose? friends are supposed to help out friends.
mammasita Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 Um, maybe he was too busy.....yeah why don't you ask him.
mammasita Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 Um, maybe he was too busy.....yeah why don't you ask him.
almond Posted November 7, 2014 Posted November 7, 2014 Friends have lives too. You asked him to drop whatever he is doing, go to the pharmacy, purchase something for you, and deliver it. He said he couldn't. He checked up on you multiple times throughout the day however...and you're complaining?? Lol. Keep your sense of entitlement in check. I doubt he chose not to bring the meds to you because he is hiding feelings from you...I find that a bit of a stretch, and an odd conclusion to come to. How long have you known this "male friend?" Are you close? Does he ask you for favours? Anyway, you're a big girl, look after yourself - don't expect male friends to drop everything and come running just because you have an upset stomach. 1
dragonfire13 Posted November 8, 2014 Posted November 8, 2014 You mean, did he not do you the favour because he thought that task was "boyfriend-ey"? Maybe. More than likely, he was busy and probably didn't have the time to go round or want to get infected (sure, he could have just dropped it off on your porch but I'd feel a bit petty doing that, and I would probably only do it if I was passing by your house on my way somewhere). 1
Author fifipheebs Posted November 8, 2014 Author Posted November 8, 2014 You mean, did he not do you the favour because he thought that task was "boyfriend-ey"? Maybe. More than likely, he was busy and probably didn't have the time to go round or want to get infected (sure, he could have just dropped it off on your porch but I'd feel a bit petty doing that, and I would probably only do it if I was passing by your house on my way somewhere). yes, i am thinking he got scared thinking it was too "boyfriend-ey" amd didnt want to make me read into the action. bcz my home is on the way back to his home.
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