GarrusVakarian Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 (edited) Any advice on this?. Basically, I have been going out with a friend I used towork with for a drink. Always liked her, but I was married at the time, gettingdivorced at the moment. Plus she got together with another work college/friendwho I now no longer work with. Anyway they got married, it didn’t last long, andhe screwed it up by running up thousands on credit cards, heavy drinking andlying to her about it. She told him the other week she wanted a divorce. Shehas been married twice now. I bumped into her the other week while I was out in town; lasked her out, telling her I always really liked her. She said yes and agreedto go out. Just something has been buggingme over the whole thing. I really like her soon to be ex, who is a good guy. Just a bit of an idiot at times. Every time I arrange to meet her, I always bump into the ex the day before. Not really great friends with this guy, more of an acquaintance but have a lot of time for him. But he told me months ago he thought he could save marriage, even though she told him its over. Is it a good idea to start dating this girl?. Or am I asking for trouble? Edited November 6, 2014 by GarrusVakarian
Tik Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 As Scar told Simba after the wildebeast stampede, 'Run, runaway as fast as you can'. 1
Heartache79 Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 She's still married to this cat and apparently just left him. I'd keep my distance and give her some time to collect her thoughts. 1
Assasda Posted November 6, 2014 Posted November 6, 2014 Why do you feel its cool to get with a woman thats still married? Youre screaming desperation. Take a long look at yourself OP, figure out why youre insecure. Then start dating after that
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